How do I stop from eating so much?

I think that’s a big part of it.

Consider drinking a full glass of water before eating a meal; you may find that you are less ravenous for food when eating.

I also think that cravings are reduced by eating a well rounded diet. If you finish you meal with some fresh fruit, I don’t think you’ll feel as eager to consume candy or dessert later on. (and if you eat the whole fruit - not just the juice - you get the fiber benefit that should offset any worry about consuming sugar)

How true about the medications! My appetite increases, and suddenly, I eat like a truck driver at the truck stop buffet. I have had to just be mindful of this fact, and eat slowly. Someone mentioned consulting with your care team, and that is what I have done, too. Drinking plenty of water can help, too, bc it fills your stomach and in my case, that does dull my appetite. I have kept my weight reasonable, but only bc I am older and of average height for a female and a few pounds pudges me up, makes me uncomfortable. All this gives me incentive, and I have been thin, so I don’t like how draggy I feel, but I am working on losing just the 10 lbs I have gained. It is a challenge, losing weight, whether it is 10lbs or 110. Good Luck to you!

Two things I’ve started doing since the OP:

When eating I take a bite, put down my fork, and fully chew and swallow the food in my mouth before picking the fork back up.

Fully stopped drinking all pop, diet or otherwise, and learned to enjoy plain, sparkling water.

This, I need to learn to do. I stopped the diet pop, which is a good thing, but I switched to sugared because without the caffiene, I feel run down. I do drink hot and iced tea but then I miss the carbonation. And I don’t like sparking water unless I’m really thirsty. Working on it. Suggestions welcome.

I really disliked carbonated water but I decided to try to focus on the “bubbly” and I found that it only took me a couple of days to begin to quite enjoy it. Another bonus is you can still drink it after you’ve brushed your teeth!

Well done you! I’m sure that, on top of hopefully upping your exertions even a little with help you.

Half coffee, half carbonated water?

Ah! Exactly! LOL

This is not a good idea. C02 reacts with water to form Carbolic Acid, which is pretty bad for teeth. When you put a tooth in Coke and it dissolves disgustingly, a lot of that work is being done by the acid from the C02, not from the sugar.

Thanks for the effort, but I don’t do coffee. I wish I could get past the taste,

Smart move! There is research to show that it takes a little while for brain to catch up to your stomach and register that you’re full.

In fact, for those who are obese, the delay is even more pronounced.

https://news.ufl.edu/archive/2003/02/obese-people-experience-delay-in-feeling-full-uf-researchers-find.html

I didn’t even think about that! After reading it I went to do some research and found this article which says carbonated water does little harm to your teeth/enamel.

I guess what I’ll do if I have sparkling water in the evening, is have a bit of plain water before I call it a night.

This has been debunked.

Snopes

  • Coca-Cola will not dissolve a tooth (or a nail, or a penny, or a piece of meat) overnight.

BBC Science Focus

With its sugar, carbonic and phosphoric acids, cola would seem well able to dissolve teeth. But so can many acidic drinks, including orange juice: there’s nothing especially nasty about cola. The idea that it can destroy teeth literally overnight appears to be an urban myth with its origins in misquoted statements made by a Cornell University professor in 1950.

The Hmmmm… Schooling Mom

Talk about discolored. And yucky. But soft? Gooey? Dissolved? Cratered?

Not. At. All.

I’m confused. Neither of your first two cites says the tooth doesn’t dissolve, but rather, “it’s the acid that does the work” which is literally what I said. Though they are mostly talking about Phosphoric Acid which is added, not Carbolic Acid which is generated from the C02. I said nothing about the speed at which it works.

The third says it didn’t work after a week, but the tooth was pretty gross. I mean, ok, maybe I was wrong.

The articles say that phosphoric acid will dissolve teeth just fine, just not at the concentration it is present in coke. Furthermore you’re not supposed to hold the coke in your mouth for days on end.

Coke/OJ/etc. is bad for you because it has ridiculous amounts of sugar in, not because it is uniquely bad for your teeth. The carbonation is the least of your problems.
[sugar residue is a fertile basis for bacteria that will produce acids that damage your teeth - the damage is mostly done by prolonged exposure. A sip of carbonated water will not leave such sugary residue and your saliva will soon neutralize any acidity]

In January, 2020, Mr VOW had a “Widowmaker” heart attack. A few months later, my kidneys, which had been chugging along for years at Chronic Kidney Disease (CKD), Stage 2, decided to move to CKD 3/4. I guess they couldn’t make up their minds.

POW!

Mr VOW was determined to have Congestive Heart Failure accompanying the heart attack, so the bottom line for both of us was “Goodbye, Salt!” I compiled a large array of no-salt seasonings at The Daughter’s house, and EVERYTHING I cook there is made without salt. The Daughter and her family are free to salt my cooking to their personal tastes.

When Mr VOW was cleared for travel, and we could return to AZ, I cleared out the refrigerator, the freezers, and the pantry. No more convenience foods! Most canned goods, gone! All those easy-to-fix side dishes, gone! Frozen dinners, gone! IQF frozen chicken pieces, bye-bye! No more pickles, cheese, soy sauce. I read the labels of EVERYTHING. You would be amazed at how salt is put into almost any food there is.

We donated the huge bags of culled foods to a neighbor. When COVID hit, many of her grown children came home to mama, and she had lots mouths to feed.

Once you get rid of all that CRAP, you won’t have the temptation of food that isn’t good for you. Don’t buy soda and bring it into the house. If it isn’t there, you won’t drink it!

We have occasional treats. We will splurge on fast food every now and again. But the salt we taste in fast food is overpowering. Mr VOW sneaks his Cokes. But now he also drinks club soda.

All the above advice is good: talk to your doctor about side effects of your medications. Walk more. And don’t bring food and drink into your house that you shouldn’t have around.

~VOW