Depends what profession. Partners and principles in prestigeous law, advertising or consulting firms (Mckinsey, Bain or Boston Consulting Group, not Steve’s IT Consulting, Inc.), managing directors of banks or VC firms, Fortune 500 CEOs and officers. These guys are pretty much Upper Class by any standard. Multiple six-figure incomes, own multiple property, businesses, etc. Country Clubs, best schools. That kind of stuff.
I consider upper-middle to be basically the people who work in those professions and have achieved a certain level of success. Own their nice house in the right neighborhood. Owned or leased Volvos and BMWs and whatnot. Lawyers, some doctors who don’t make as much, professors, sr mangers in large companies. Maybe income in the $70-200k range depending on where you live. Usually pretty good to top schooling. Right clothes with the right labels. Just enough money to be a little arrogant.
Middle class, I consider school teachers, nurses, well paid tradesmen like plumbers or electricians. $45k jobs. Basically nth tier or state schools. Beater cars or sensible Saturns Joe sixpacks and soccer moms. Generic sub-division living. Generic or non-label versions of UMC affectations. Generally likeable but lacking a certain worldliness.
Lower middle class - Low level corporate jobs - call center operators or admins. Struggle to make ends meet. State schools or community college. Over inflated sense of the worth of money ($10k is considered a LOT of money).
Working class - Basically working poor. People in low level jobs like fast food, sanitation, non-transient restaurant workers (IOW, waiters who are not students home for the summer). Basically living paycheck to paycheck.
Destitute poor - Basically the poorest of the poor.
Now upper middle class and above is where it starts to get interesting. It’s kind of like being a partner in a law firm. Yeah all the partners make the big money compared to the scrubs billing 100 hour weeks, but there are all kinds of levels within levels.
Basically the UMCs, work for the UCs. If they work hard, they might be UCs themselves. He’s your boss with the $2M home in Greenwich, CT while you are busting your ass pulling all-nighters. He’s a pretty wealthy guy by any stretch of the imagination but he’s griping because he only makes $400k a year. 28 year old kids on Wall Street are making that (actually quote by one of the partners at my old MC firm). Like Gorden Gecko says, he doesn’t want to be “comfortible like some guy making $400k a year and flying first class”, he wants to be “liquid”. So wealthy he doesn’t have to work again.
So he makes some wise investments, becomes a senior partner, now he’s worth about $5-10 M. That’s pretty good money, but that doesn’t make him a player in the really big leagues. Can’t buy a Gulfstream jet with that kind of money. You aren’t going to be dealing with the Trumps of the world for $5-10M. And none of them means anything to someone who has inherreted their millions already and have been living with it from birth.
Anyhow you get the picture. Show me someone with $500 M and I’ll show you a frustrated billionare.
The whole idea of “high society” is fascinating for all its ridiculousness. My fraternity had some chapters in the South where social standing was a big deal. You had to come from the right families and it was all very elitist with corney regalias and balls and box-socials with carriages and flowers and fuck-knows what else. Give it up! You aren’t on freakin Tara, Scarlett! Franky we don’t give a damn! (Then again, we also had chapters that were borderline Klan and branded their letters on their arm so go figure)
The whole purpose of making a shitload of money is so you can do what the fuck you want! Not to do what some throwbacks to the turn of the century tell you you should do! If you have that kind of money, you SHOULD be like the Trumps or Rupert Murdochs and just make gaudy 40 story gold plated buildings and crazy TV networks to piss off old money types!