Adimbert said:
Kurt Vonnegut wrote of a concept called the “granfalloon.”
He defined it (loosely) as “an artificial bond between people.” Giving as examples such statements as “Oh, YOU’RE from Iowa? I’M from Iowa, too! Let’s be friends!” It also refers to such groups as fraternities/sororities, nationalism/patriots and sports fans.
While I agree that humanity needs the sense of community to stay sane (and we’ve by and large lost that sense, which is probably one reason for the entire world losing its collective mind), to be bound to others for the sole reason of geographic proximity is kind of silly. Even when the proximity is not that apparent. My best friend lives thousands of miles away, but in the same country. Our bond is not defined by the borders within which we live, but rather by a likeness of spirit.
Which is precisely the type of bond that truly matters. Patriotism is bunk.
I will freely admit, however, that when supporting Israel, my beliefs belie my previous statement. I do think that everybody belongs somewhere, and every granfalloon that chooses to identify themselves with one another has the right to a homeland.
Now, before there are any nasty responses like “Well, what about the Palestinians? Don’t they need a homeland, you fargin’ hypocrite?” let me remind you that Palestine before the 1948 borders was comprised of what is now Israel (approx. 20%) and what is now Jordan (approx. 80%). When in the mid '80s King Hussein of Jordan told the Palestinians in essence that his country was not theirs, it was a brilliantly calculated political maneuver designed to encourage world sympathy for the poor homeless Palestinians. NOT a denial of their right to be there. Well, maybe it was the latter as a tool to achieve the former.
Sorry, didn’t mean to get off on such a tangent.
Damn stream-of-consciousness thinking.
My point (finally!) is that when you get down to it, your primary loyalties should be to yourself and those you love. Not to the lump of dirt you live on, IF THAT’S NOT what you love. If you love your country, go ahead–be a foaming-at-the-mouth patriot if that’s what gets you off. Just don’t ask others to join you on your crusade.