I don’t want to hijack the thread on Purgatory, but I wanted to have a deeper look at some of the points which were made. I’m interested in learning what people think about doing wrong, the need to admit it, and the need to make amends for it.
The Episcopal church teaches that you must make a formal confession of your sins before Communion (aka, The Eucharist, The Lord’s Table, etc.). A priest or bishop, acting for God then pronounces your sins to be forgiven. Normally, no specific atonement is required. Here’s one standard Confession:
(from the Episcopal Church’sBook of Common Prayer, Holy Eucharist, Rite II)
Formal, one-on-one confession to a priest isn’t usually required, but there was one time when I deliberately did something which broke one of the most important vows I had made to God when I felt it was necessary. I wasn’t given any penance because I clearly was repentent enough, and the guilt I was feeling was probably penance enough. I was, however, told to be a bit more careful in future. Since I think most Episcopal priests also have some training in counseling, I like the idea of having formal confession available as an option, even if I hope to never need to use it again.
Pretty much all Christians believe God forgives our sins. Most believe we need to acknowledge them first, but I suspect we can sin without being conscious of it, i.e. was I failing to love my neighbor as myself when I didn’t let that person make a left turn in front of me, or was I simply in a hurry? Who do you acknowledge them too?
Atonement’s another sticky area. If a friend ruins your favorite jacket, while you may accept their apology, you might want them to do something more like offering to replace it. God does love us, but He also does judge us. Theoretically, Christ was a full and sufficient sacrifice. Theoretically, a good friendship is also worth a lot more than a ruined jacket, but can an arguement be made that something must still be done?
I’ve focussed mostly on Christianity because that’s what I know best. I’m also interested in other religions’ perspective on these three issues, as well as other denominations’. Even our atheists must have an opinion on what to do when you screw up.
I’m looking forward to reading your replies.
CJ