How I got my guitar- memories of my Dad

Spring, 1976. I had desperately wanted to learn to play the guitar. My parents, geeks that they were :smiley: , made me take classical lessons. I was working in a store in the mall, and there was a music store there. They got in an Ovation 12-strainged guitar. I totally fell in love with it. I dragged my dad to the store- he had me show him that I could play it, and I begged him to get ot for me. It was $600, which was a total buttload of money in 1976.

 A few days later, Dad told me that if I read 12 books over the summer- REAL books, then he would get me the guitar for my 16th birthday.  I had just discovered boys and TV, and he was afraid I'd beconme a vegetable. 

 So, I did it.  I read 12 books that summer.  I can't remeber all of the books I read, but I got hooked on books and to this day would rather read than do anything else.  

 My dad died in July.  I don't play my guitar as often as I used to, but I played it tonight a bit, and thought about my dad.   I'll never be Leo Kottke- but everytime I open that guitar case, I'll think about my dad, and be grateful to him for starting me on a lifetime of reading.

That’s a sweet story. My condolences on your loss. My dad died a little over two years ago, and I know those first few months after such a huge loss aren’t easy. It’s good that you can remember the happy memories.

I remember Dad teaching me to play pool. And Ping Pong.
I remember how proud he was that I was a “big shot executive who traveled the world.”
I remember he worked hard to feed us, even if he didn’t earn much.
I remember Mom and Dad becoming addicted to Ms. Pacman when I gave them an Atari for Christmas one year - and how he would get up in the middle of the night to practice so that he could beat Mom the next day.

I have so many good memories of a good man.

Dad passed away December 3 2003 of Emphysema.

**katie1341 ** I am so sorry for your loss. But remembering is good. Thank you.

My dad and I were always at loggerheads about something as I grew up. But I can never repay him enough for teaching me to read and love reading at a very early age, and for teaching me through the example of his life about honor and integrity.

That’s why, to this day, I still cannot play Dan Fogelberg’s “Leader of the Band” without choking up. Katie, if you want to pay tribute to your dad, learn that song and play it on a regular basis.

I too always enjoy this song.