I was raised ‘Fundamental Christian.’ My mom’s not taking it well, I don’t think. The whole campaign drove her off the deep end. In all my years, I’ve never heard such hate and vitriol come out of her mouth. She practically ripped my family apart because of it. I have 3 sisters and me. We were all raised the same. 2 of my sisters and myself would try and calmly debate why Obama was the right choice, at least to us. Calmly, until she started spewing that fundamental dog shit. My sisters can’t hold back, so they would get really upset, then I had to mediate. I had to explain that America is not, and never was a, holy, sacred country, deemed by God himself as pure. I quoted the Constitution. Made it clear that this is a free country, and that’s how we should vote. I raised parallels to God and America: If God created us with free-will, then the onus is on us to make the right choices. Law or no law. America works in the same way in which God created us. I tried to reason that abortion needs to stay legal, because no matter what laws you make, you have to leave it to the individual to make the choice or not. So, on top of being a “sinner”, why make them a criminal as well? You can’t legislate faith. We went around and around on the end-times, the Iraq war, the economy, terrorism, “he’s a muslim”, “he’s not a citizen”, all that horse crap. Then she was out with the personal insults. Calling me and my sisters stupid, and back-sliding-sinners. There was nothing more to say. You couldn’t have a two-way conversation with her. So I wrote and emailed letter to both her and my dad.
It ended up being really long, but heartfelt and honest, in which explained my point of view since I was a kid – raised in a church with very strong beliefs – to the agnostic I am now. I emailed it to my dad and her both. My dad called me, cried, and said how proud of me he was. My mom, never said a word. And hasn’t since the election. But she’s pretending to go on like none of this ever happened. I still love her, the both of them, very much. I never regretted a thing, and only harbor contempt for closed-mindedness, no matter what your religion, politics, or philosophy.
This was an important election for me personally, because it raised all this stuff that we are too afraid to talk about, to the surface. It forced me to confront this once and for all. See, my mom’s afraid. She’s built up enemies that aren’t really there. They all have. And they’re all afraid of these illusions. That’s just what drives them, fear and hate. It creates division. Not very Christian, if you ask me. I refuse to buy into it, and will love her through to the end, and I told her as much. I also told her I am not afraid. I think she thinks I should be. I just hope she can come around. Her religion has borne her hate. Tragic.