Something a bit random and non-serious this time around..
Back in the age of the dinosaurs we had rotary dial phones and paper books that had a list of numbers for individuals and businesses. There were even lines on one page where you could write down numbers that you frequently called. Of course, most of those frequent numbers were memorized because, well, they were frequently used.
Now, in the modern age of digital brains, most of the memory space for those numbers have been reallocated for other tasks, like random information for trivia night.
Leading to the purpose of this post. How many phone numbers do you have in active memory. I’ll start.
Mine. Of course. Businesses frequently ask for it.
My wife and one daughter on my phone plan.
My brother’s business landline that he’s had for decades before cell phones.
My BFF from 80’s high school because he still has it active.
Dead landlines..
My residence where I was in elementary school.
My residence where I lived in high school..
There are a couple of friend’s numbers I would recognize if they came in without caller ID.
Assuming you mean private numbers that still work and not old ones burned into my head as a kid:
mine, barely - need it for stuff
roomie’s - ditto
sister’s - for emergencies
mom’s old friend - it just hasn’t changed
the doctor’s office - it’s one off from sis’s
And even some of those were pushing it, as I had to check to make sure I had them right.
None, really. I do remember mine if I stop and think, but if I haven’t said it out loud for a couple of months it’s a struggle to recall it. And I’ve had this number for nearly 15 years.
Current numbers:
My number
My wife’s number
One sibling
Numbers I still remember, but the numbers no longer work or the person isn’t there
Family residence
Two friends from high school (who don’t live there anymore)
My grandmother
I keep in my mind quite a few phone numbers… but I wonder if anybody here remembers them as I do.
I don’t remember phone numbers as a string of numbers in my head. I remember them as finger motions, as if my finger was pressing the buttons in an invisible keyboard.
Does anybody else do something like this to remember phone numbers?
Hundreds, but they are all too old to be useful. I never forgot a phone number until my mid thirties. Literally would dial it once and tuck it away without trying. Now, (late 50’s) the speed dial handles all that, and I am useless without the contact list in my phone.
I have always had a good facility for memorizing numbers. Not effortless, but even one time use numbers stuck around for months before clearing out. Now … not so much. One and done is one and done; they’re gone by the time the call is over.
So my mental phone number horde is about like the rest of us …
Active:
My mobile number that I’ve now had for 20+ years. I had memorized my ex-wife’s (presumably still active) mobile number from 2021 in the course of giving it to a lot of people, paperwork, & websites, but I’ve since lost the last 4 digits. I don’t know any of the numbers of any of my current friends or my serious GF.
Dead or still active but now irrelevant to me:
My parent’s two numbers that went with my childhood through high school residences. My late wife’s mobile number picked to be similar to mine; we got a matched sorta-pair at the same time when we switched carriers. The 800 number for my former employer’s crew management department. Although they deliberately picked it to spell something memorable and I remember it by the words, not the digits. It wasn’t 800-EAT-SHIT, but it sure could’ve been for all the turmoil and trouble that came via that number over the years.
And of course the fake numbers from a couple of popular songs.
Ahem. It’s 867-5309.
Like I suspect most people, I can recognize a lot more numbers than I can recall. e.g. If you showed me a list of three numbers where one is my ex-wife’s and the other two are similar plausible fakes, I’d almost certainly be able to pick out the real one. Bury it in 10 or 15 similar ones? Much harder.
Most of the numbers I remember, are landlines that haven’t been in service for many years. My parents, siblings, my office number at several former employers. I also remember the main number at my current and former employer whose numbers are deliberately easy to remember. I put them down when people insist on getting a “work phone” from me. They both work but are pointless unless you know someone’s extension.