My dad went into the hospital yesterday. He had been diagnosed with CHF a couple of weeks ago, and had been being treated with diuretics and a restricted sodium diet. Yesterday morning, my sister saw him, noted that he was looking like he felt like crap, and persuaded him to go to the hospital. The doctors decided to perform some kidney function tests, and learned that he’s in kidney failure (approximately 70% of his kidney function is now gone).
Of course, I immediately offered him one of my kidneys (depending on the results of tissue matching, of course). He turned me down, based on the fact that the doctors haven’t even indicated yet that they want to start dialysis, much less to try giving him a new kidney. And also the fact that he’s just about eighty years old; he doesn’t think a donated kidney would be best utilized in a man his age.
Well, I’m not entirely certain about that; but that’s not what I want to discuss here. What I want to discuss is: if he did accept my kidney, and then died within a few months of non-renal-related causes, what would be the technological impediments to removing the transplanted kidney, and putting it back in me?
Let’s take it as read that he is free of any bloodborne and bodily fluid-borne pathogens.
IANAD. The short answer is that they wouldn’t do it, IMHO. I wouldn’t be surprised if the risks of the surgery to return the transplanted kidney outweigh the risks of you continuing to live with one kidney. Also, the kidney would have spent several months in a seriously immunocompromised host, and it could have picked up all sorts of nasty things during that time, so I don’t think you can assume he is free of pathogens.
Keep in mind, between the initial surgery and living in your dad’s body for awhile (‘cause even under the best of circumstances the hosts’ immune system still tries to attack the new kidney) the kidney will have suffered some level of damage. Depending on how your dad hypothetically passes away, the manner of that death might render the kidney useless - for example, liver failure causes all sorts of damage in the body. If he dies of infection the giving you back the kidney could make you sick. If he suffers from low oxygen saturation for a die before expiring that can also damage his organs.
So no, you won’t be getting your kidney back.
That said - if you, as a live donor, wish to donate your kidney to your 80 year old father then, assuming he is healthy enough for the surgery, they’d probably do it. It would certainly be unusual, though.
I understand your impulse to help your father and I really admire it - I certainly hope I would do the same thing for my dad if he needed it. However, I think you may be jumping the gun somewhat. Depending on a number of factors people can survive for a long time with good quality of life on only 30% kidney function. For comparison, dialysis only gives a person about 5-8% kidney function, so 30% is much much better than a patient on dialysis. If your father’s problems are progressing slowly (or can be improved), he may very well never need dialysis or a transplant.
The risks of having a transplant are far from negligable - it’s major surgery, and the immunosuppression puts the patient at increased risk of infections and cancer (plus requires regular hospital visits and blood testing etc). It may be that for him that even if his kidney failure progresses enough for a transplant to be considered, the risks will outweigh the benefits and it won’t be the best option for him.
I too have never heard of an organ being returned to the donor and think it’s highly unlikely for the reasons Broomstick outlined. In addition, immunosuppressive drugs can themselves damage the kidney. Also, for you the get the kidney back, he would have to die in such a way that they could keep the it functional - if he were in hospital on life support that would be one thing, but if he died outside hospital then I doubt it would survive long enough to be recoverable (or would at least sustain substantial damage, in addition to the damage caused by the original surgery , immune reaction, drugs and any other problems).
I am in THE EXACT SAME SITUATION, and also wondered about getting mine back one day (FYI, my father is 63).
Sorry, slight hijack but if I do give him my kidney, what can I expect in my later years if I don’t get it back (as that appears from the responses here unfeasible)?
So if I continue training, saying my prayers and taking my vitamins (in other words, healthy living :D) I can reasonably expect to live out my life as long as I would if I had 2 kidneys…