Jesus. If you want people to think you’re wearing one (for any reason, including perceived appropriateness), and someone detects that you’re not, you’re busted.
You decide if it is appropriate, then decide whether you care if detected. Now you’re on a roll, keep on figuring things out for yourself.
The delegate from Arizona votes to censure the OP.
Closed. Further action may be taken pending mod discussion.
Moderator Warning
We have been trying to reduce the level of misogyny here on the SDMB. Threads about shaming women are exactly the sort of thing that we don’t want here. This is an official warning for inappropriate/jerkish behavior.