I went with a chauffeur. IMHO driving is a lot more mentally taxing than cooking or cleaning, and it’s definitely a lot more dangerous. Having a professional take on that responsibility would do more to lessen my anxiety than having someone cook or do other household chores.
French Maid.
Does there have to be a difference?
Not if you’re Mike Pence. :eek:
Personal trainer/dietitian
Au pair
Walk the dog
Feed the dog
Clean up after the dog
Tell the dog to shut up
Well, he did it all, so that would do. 
Concubine. One who also cooks and cleans.
Ditto.
Ditto.
Maintenance, to me, could even include cleaning the pool, washing the car, routine car & motorcycle maintenance…I’d love to do even a few original projects together – build storage, refurb the deck, etc.
–G!
I chose “other” because the service person I would want would be someone who could fix things.
Housekeeper. Please.
Come now.
Chauffeur. I hate, Hate, HATE driving.
Definitely groundskeeper who keeps the yard in order, plants in the spring, rakes leaves in the fall, clears the drive in the winter.
Since the Butler is basically the household manager, I’ll take one of those.
All the more reason to choose butler, they’ll be the first suspect EVERY time. If you got a butler, you got almost automatic plausible deniability built right in.
Def butler.
I’m going with housekeeper, assuming you mean butler in a Downton Abbey sense. If you mean butler like Geoffrey off of The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air (who IIRC cooked and cleaned and more), then butler.
See post #42 
I couldn’t spell that word.
+1 for me, too.
Masseuse. Hands down 