I was going to pull out quotes and statements from a number of posts, and when I started replying to that, the post was unreadable. So I will do it like this: improvisational answering.
First, THANK YOU ALL for the sincere and heartfelt answers. It has demonstrated two things to me. The people on the dope are a very good group of people when it comes to answering a question like this, and two, horse owners in general must be very special people. There is clearly a lot of concern for me and my family over safety issues, and the commitment that it takes to own a horse. There is also clearly a lot of concern over horses in general, which is also great to see.
Quite frankly, I wasn’t and am not properly prepared to own a horse. It is not that I cannot afford one. It seems that although it would be an expensive hobby, it’s not something I would consider out of my price range. It IS however, something out of my experience range, so signing up for lessons is the next step I will take. Getting on a horse and goimg around a worn trail at a tourist ranch isn’t exactly what I would call good experience; however, it did jump start something inside me, something that made me want a horse. I still want a horse, after all of the scary stories in this thread, but I’m much more excited about pacing the process and getting some real riding lessons first. This makes sense on so many levels, and for a novice like me, quite frankly, it should be the only thing permitted. But I guess if they will let you have a kid without any sort of training or test, a horse is probably easy to get for someone with the right money. I’m not interested in owning a horse for bragging rights… I really do want to ride it, and care for it as a pet and/or member of the family. But getting the riding lessons sounds like the best way to go… I can try different horses, test different temperaments, and see which one works with my personality. (it’s too bad there wasn’t an option like this available when I was looking for a spouse. Sure, we date… But a horse isn’t offended after you have one ride on her and you decide that she’s not the one. She doesn’t start telling her friends how you stink riding, nor does she get upset if she sees you with another horse. Ah, if life were so simple)
I am still interested in any stories you all want to share, but my mind is made up on this particular issue. I have not disclosed my location for personal reasons, but I am on the east coast of the US, if that makes any difference. I also live in a fairly rural area (I am not that far from a major city, but I’m also not too far from serious farmland and boarding stables). Finding one will not be an issue. Finding the correct one may be, however, so I am willing to look, for both my sake and the horse’s.
You know, it occurred to me that if people cared for others the way you all care about horses, the world would be a much better place. But I guess we can’t have everything.
Thanks, all. You’ve not only done me a great turn, but you have probably saved a horse from a potentially miserable life. He (or she) thanks you also. :D. (horse face smile)