Long prelude for context, but you can scroll down to blue text.
I’ve got a friend who is pretty wealthy. She got a wad of money from her family, but sha has also worked hard to grow it. I’m not sure how much her entire holdings are worth, but I know she own a pretty big house here, rents an apartment in New York that she doesn’t stay in all that often. She sublets when she’s not there, and undercharges the tenants, makes up the different with the landlord, and the understanding is that if she wants to use the place, she gives them two weeks notice that they have to find other accommodations, or move to the storage room upstairs, which once upon a time was the servant’s quarters. Yeah, it’s that nice an apartment.
She also has a small-ish (for someone of her means) in California which she rents (again, very low) to a family with two children who are from Haiti, and probably thought they’d won the lottery when they hooked up wit her. The master bedroom is hers, and they use the other two. Keeping the house occupied is in her best interests, because it actually keeps her insurance low (apparently enough to make up for the hit she takes on the rent. Moreover, when she’s there, they do who laundry, cook for her, and clean the house, including vacuuming her room, cleaning her bathroom, etc.
I visited her their once. FTR, she treats them very well. The kids call hr “Aunt,” and she gives them birthday and Christmas presents.
She’s go two cars in Indy (I actually met her at a car museum, then I helped her fix something on her Bel Air), a Tesla and a 56 Bel Air, and a Prius in Cali. No car in NYC.
We turned out to have something else in common-- she also collects pinball machines, except she’s really serious about it. And she’s got a full set of cocktail-top arcade games.
She also collects vintage musical inastruments, and gold coins from around the world.
I’m going into such detail, to show that yes, in fact, she is rich. She is not Bill Gates rich, but she does have an endowed foundations. One gives tuition money to highly rated (and usually highly expensive) pre-schools to use for families living below the poverty live, or with a parent on disability. The other one gives money to families with older foster children who will turn 18 before they finish high school, so the kids can continue to be supported through graduation (or if the families won’t keep them, even with financial help, to help the kids themselves stay on their feet, and support them so they will finish high school.
OK. She’s not Richie Rich. But I’d guess the totality of her holdings are between $5-10,000,000.00. You’d recognize her last nam ihyjn8ue as being associated with an Indiana family (NOT the Pences, and not the Jacksons), so I’m just going to call her T. Anyway, like I said, her family gave her generous seed money when she finished college, but she built it by about 400%.
OK. Here’s my point: I would never ask someone about their financial situation unless 1) they had just proposed; 2) wanted to go into business with me; C) just asked to borrow more than $100 from me.
But once when I was having coffee with T, and a couple of other friends, someone just bluntly asked her "How much money do you really have?
T: Depends on what you mean by have. In my pockets? In my debit card account? Plus the annuity I’m building for retirement? How much would I have if I liquidated my entire holdings?
Nosy: How much cash could you get hold of in ten minutes?
T: 10 minutes? About $50,000 in cashier’s checks, or about $12,000 in cash.
Nosy: What about an hour?
This went on, with me trying ro make myself smaller and smaller, but it went something like this:
1 hr.: $1,500,000
24 hrs: $2,500,000
a week: $4,000,000
Then she said that above one hours were estimates because markets change, and for the same it was impossible to give anything but a ballpark figure fo liquidating all of her assets, or something like all but one living space and enough money to live frugally for a year, and it would probably take a year to do, and there would be a number before paying all the lawyers and accountants, and a number after paying the lawyers. And she wasn’t going to tell her any of those numbers, because she didn’t want to hire a bodyguard for her dog.
Then she said she had $6 in her pockets in ones, in case she needed to tip someone, and she carried two credit cards, one with a $700 limit, and one with a $10,000 limit, and a debit card, and what she had in the bank fluctuated.
So the answer it “it varies.” Some people like to carry cash, and some don’t. Another person I know who is wealthy, albeit, more like makes 2k a year, lives below is means, and invests conservatively. All he ever carries is a credit card with a $1,000, which he uses for absolutely, gas, food. He says it keeps down his impulse spending. He pays in it full twice a month, after each paycheck. He never has any ready cash-on-hand.
On the other hand, I know an auto mechanic who has such horrible credit, he can’t get a bank account. He finally got one of those secured debit cards that is check can be deposited into. He used to have to cash his paychecks at those places with the sigh that said “CHECK CASHING! MONEY ORDERS!” and charged him 10%. The debit card charges him only something like 2%, plus a flat monthly fee that like $19.
Now, HE carries LOTS of cash. When he withdraws cash from an ATM, he withdraws A LOT, to minimize the "foreign ATM fees he pays.
I would say “How much can you get together in a day” is a better standard, because it means emptying all bank accounts, CD, annuities, other retirement accounts and PERSONAL stock holdings, but not selling future potential earnings (other than retirement accounts that are not ALSO current sources of income, living space, and valuables that need to be auctioned, and can’t be sold in a day, except for far, far less than their value.