During your dental appointments, I mean. I’m not so interested in how much you hang out together at your mutual gamer’s guild/swingers club/heavy drinking sessions at the bar/etc.
I’ve been at the same dental practice since I moved to this city after college 24 years ago. At some point years ago, my original dentist retired and a new dentist took over the practice. He’s very friendly and seems perfectly competent, but over the past few years I’ve noticed that he’s spent less and less time with me. For a long time it seemed that after the hygienist was done with all the cleaning, he’d be called in and would poke at my molars with a sharp thing, measure recession along my gum lines, feel my gums with his fingers, etc. Just generally a lot of looking and poking around. Mostly I got the OK, other than advice to floss more often, although there were a couple of times when he found a small cavity that needed a filling.
The prior past few times, he came in, took a quick look, and sent me on my way. I noticed it, but didn’t think that much of it- I figured that if there had been anything obviously wrong he or the hygienist would have noticed and investigated it further. Maybe my dental health was stable enough over the years that I didn’t need as thorough an examination as I used to get, or something. Maybe or maybe not coincidentally, after I’d had the same hygienist every time for many years (and only one, albeit a different one, for all the years before that), I’ve had a different hygienist for each of the past two visits. The last one, six months ago, mentioned that she wasn’t actually an employee of the practice- she worked on a roving, contract basis.
Well, this week I went in for my biannual checkup. I was ushered in by yet another new hygienist, sat down, and got the standard cleaning, polishing, and flossing. When that was over she said, “All finished!”, to which I said “Great, thanks!” at which point she started raising the chair back up and said “I’ll walk you to the door.” So, apparently, when she said “All finished,” she meant it literally. I’d sort of figured that she meant HER part was done, and that the dentist would be in shortly, but no, no dentist at all this time.
So, has anyone else had a similar experience? Are hygienist-only appointments the new thing in dentistry? Not that dental hygienists don’t know what they’re doing or aren’t capable of spotting problems or whatever, but it just seems to me that when you go to see the dentist, you should, you know, see the dentist. At this point I’m (somewhat regretfully) willing to change practices if I thought I’d get more or better attention, but if it’s likely to just be the same kind of thing I’d rather stay at the place I’ve been for 24 years.