How strict were your parents with you drinking alcohol?

Could be. But it could also be that families which are, genetically or culturally, less prone to overboozing treat it as less of a taboo.

As I said upthread, my father was an alcoholic and my family didn’t treat it as a taboo. I don’t know that there is any real evidence to be gleaned from a thread like this.

I remember being given a sip of wine at Christmas when I was like, five, but there wasn’t really any alcohol at home otherwise. Not until after Dad had his heart attack a decade later and started keeping vodka around because he’d heard one drink after dinner would be good for his health. Apple juice with a shot was his drink of choice. I did sneak a bit of his vodka a couple of times.

My sister’s family, that’s a different story. Dad went to San Francisco for a week on business and took Mom with him; they didn’t trust me at home alone yet so I spent the week with my sister and her husband. They kept a bucket of margarita mix in their freezer and the three of us had some every night.

It’s odd, but I don’t actually remember my folks addressing the issue. They almost never drank alcohol themselves, aside from a very occasional glass of wine at a holiday dinner, or a glass of champagne punch on New Year’s Eve. I never was involved with friends that drank while I still lived with my folks, so I never “snuck” a drink.

It was pretty much the same for smoking. I smoked my first and only cigarette when I was in Army Basic Training. Never again, my mouth tasted bad for a whole day.

My mom told me she’d rather I didn’t drink, but she wasn’t going to stop me … at 15 … just the one rule about no drinking and driving (this was ten years before MADD came about) … I was pretty good about not coming home too sloppy drunk and always past the acid peak, and I had the GPA, as her youngest by quite a bit she just didn’t want to parent anymore …

The worse trouble I got into was knowing more about chemistry than the chemistry teacher did …

I was largely ignored as a kid/teen, and did my best to keep it that way. They didn’t care if I drank and knew I only really had a taste for beer, other drugs would have gotten their attention but I wasn’t interested anyway. They were religious enough I guess but when I finally said I wasn’t going to church anymore (age 12ish) they didn’t push it. They were from lower middle class homes, gave me a little bump up from what they came from.