Our cat is not too bad about scratching furniture, but she constantly attacks and mauls my wife’s ankles and her arms. She doesn’t treat me this way, only my wife. We have never figured out why she dose this. Often times she is very affectionate with my wife an she is visibly happy to see my wife come home after a long day, and so on. So it’s not that she hates my wife. She just, for some reason, thinks its okay to make my wife bleed.
We have tolerated this behavior so far, but now we are going to have a baby soon. We don’t want for the cat to attack my wife while she’s holding the baby going down the stairs, or worse, for the cat to attack the baby. What for my wife is a moderate scratch could be a serious gash for an infant.
We have tried clipping the cat’s nails but we simply can’t figure out any way to do so. Various websites purporting to explain how to get a cat to let you clip its nails are not helpful. It doesn’t work. The cat just will not allow itself to be held in place long enough for this procedure, and usually ends up hurting us (both of us) pretty badly.
She’s kind of wild, I guess.
My wife and I decided to have the cat declawed in a couple of weeks. My wife has always felt that this is a horrible thing to do to a cat, but our only alternatives seem to be to declaw the cat or to get rid of it.
My own feelings towards declawing are not the same as my wife’s. I don’t mind declawing if I think it’s necessary.
But after announcing to me that she thinks we’re going to have to get the cat declawed, and after getting on the phone and making the appoinment for it, my wife just spent the whole afternoon in the bedroom crying uncontrollably. My heart is breaking over this.
Is there anything we can do? I just gave the clipping thing the old college try once more. It just doesn’t seem like there’s any way to do it. It seems to clip her claws, I have to do the following:
- Hold her down firmly
- Grasp her paw firmly, forcing it to extract its claws.
- Clip
This requires about four hands all told. We’ve tried doing it as a cooperative effort, but even then, the cat continues to twitch and writhe and this keeps either of us from being able to keep her paw still enough for clipping purposes.
I don’t know… Is there anyone here with any advice for this situation?
Thanks…
-Kris