I’m glad this thread came around to leisure time. I really think that’s a major root of this complex problem. How many of us are just exhausted? We all have different reasons for not taking care of ourselves, and ourselves are usually the last priority.
–We may be working constantly to keep up our lifestyle.
–We may be exhausted from working a full day and taking care of the kids.
Isn’t it easier in an urban area to just drive through the drive-thru on the way home? I can’t possibly see how making homeade bread, excluding even shopping for ingredients, can take less time than picking up pre-made food on the way home.
Isn’t it a treat to stuff delicious, unhealthy food in your mouth to make you feel less drained? Or less crabby? Or less hungry? Because despite our “fatness”, we probably still ignore our hunger during the day, then when we finally have a moment to rest, we realize how hungry we are, and we need calories…fast!
I happen to be a person that makes time to work out at the gym–and I work hard, ask my (free for now) trainer. My vitals are above acceptable. I try to watch what I eat, but I’m not as good about that as I (sh)could be. I’m still fat. I’m not lazy or stupid. I’m just tired and somewhat compulsive. But my resolve is strong when I’m rested. I don’t sleep well because my mind races with thoughts of what my (non-lazy) self has accomplished for the day, and what I still need to do. I need more free time, and I’m working to make that happen. That’s my personal solution and even if I don’t lose weight, I’ll still be the better for it.
My point is that there is no generalized solution that will make everyone suddenly become slim, and we’ll not figure it out here. I think if parents had more time and energy, they would make feeding their children healthy food a priority. I think if people had more downtime, time to think, sleep, relax, they would be more apt to take better care of themselves. I could go on and on.
I hope that any “solution” that is implemented is done so with compassion and understanding towards, parents, children and just plain ol’ fat people.