I’m thinking too that since this is in Cafe Society it’s supposed to be a little tongue-in-cheek, not a big finger-pointing bitchfest about why we’re all fat.
I was doing okay for a while, no matter what I ate. But I think I’ve increased the bad, ever so slightly, and decreased the less-bad, as well as having no opportunity for the regular exercise I used to get, so it’s all gone literally pear-shaped.
I’m also not sure if I care that much, because it’s not negatively impacting on my life in any way yet. I just think back to those thinner times wistfully.
Bought a house, changed from a stand-up retail job to a more sit-down librarian one, got older, didn’t change my eating habits from when I had a killer metabolism.
I’ve always been a bit overweight, but not obese or anything. In the 18 months surrounding my father’s illness and death, I was in such a depression I stopped doing anything, but kept eating the same…and then some. I gained 60+ lbs. It’s come off now, but slowly.
Christ, I wish is was something as simple as soda. That’d be easy for me. Just swap it out with diet drinks. Honestly, I prefer diet drinks to full sugar soda these days. Weird, I know.
For me, it’s beer and wine. I don’t really have any extra pounds any more, but when I did, that was the main source of them. I drink almost as much as I used to, but I need to make sure to keep my exercise level up to maintain my weight and not gain these days.
About six years ago, I lost 50lbs. Over the past two, I’ve gained about 15 back. I got busy, I got complacent, I forgot that I hadn’t actually magically become a naturally thin person, and I stopped working out four or five times a week. My diet is basically fine (except for the booze), but I need to get back to burning it off.
I’m working out more regularly now, and I’ve lost a few pounds, but I’m missing two crucial ingredients that fueled my previous weight loss; rage and the necessity of getting naked with new people. Now I’m happy, have a familiar and reliable sexual partner, and am not nearly as motivated.
Slow metabolism. Wasn’t really paying attention to my weight and next thing I knew I was 30 lbs over what I should have been. I wasn’t eating anything to excess, but I was eating like I was a 20-year-old.
For those of you with a soda addiction, try switching to a flavored carbonated water like La Croix. It’s basically just carbonated water with natural flavoring–no calories, no strange chemicals. It helped me kick the soda habit.
Desk job and pop, secondarily it was denial that I was putting on weight until it stuck. I hate to say this, but I lived within walking distance of work and drove every day; I never had that chance again.