I’m still looking for Weirddave’s assumption that a “girl”+“degree”= “naive”. Gender was never an issue here, so why did this get dragged into the pit?
Sven, college is but one chapter of a lifetime novel. Hell, I spent nine years in college and virtually became a professional student ,but all it did was make the chapter thicker than other chapters in my life. Degrees in App. Math, Comp. Sci., Geography, I was bent on getting a job at JPL or a contractor for JPL. I only had one math prof who was a bonafide left-winger (extremely rare), beads and all, pushing idealistically for social programs for every malady in the world…what a bunch of BS I thought back then. I’m just going to work for JPL or NASA…
I graduated in 1990 at the cusp of the double-dip recession, with my wife and my two year old son looking on. (Did I mentioned that I worked full-time since 1982, supporting the family as well and go through college?) Interviewing for a job with a contractor, I started noticing that I didn’t like the 72 mile one-way commute to possible job. My wife has a degree in Human Development in the Psych field and wants to start a program for developmentally disabled adults. We submitted a proposal for state funded grants and got it on the first try. Damn, we’re gonna start our own business from scratch! (During a recession in California = crapshoot) Talk about naive!
Guess, what…my chapter on college wasn’t finished because I was naive about owning and running our own business. Back to class to do Accounting, Business Law, and Management until I felt comfortable at what I was doing. My wife runs the program half of the company and I’m the financial half. Somehow we ended up having two more children added to our family.
We feel greatful for the opportunities we seized, and though I didn’t jump at the opportunity to sleep on a Mayan Pyramid, I did jump on opportunities that made the business succeed and making a difference in the lives of the developmentally disabled in our neck of the woods (more like weeds here in the desert); I feel we have acheived a certain level of helping the world (in a liberal sense), although the conservative in me wins out every time when it comes to making business decisions that has kept the program running for the last 11 years. I haven’t seen someone shot, but I have seen appalling abuse of the developmentally disabled and reported such issues to authorities. I’ve seen some living in squalid conditions and help them obtain clean clothes, food and a safe place to live. $500/plate lunches don’t interest me, but spending $500 on my 145 clients to take them all out to lunch does interest me. Integrating our clients into society and contribute has been our goal (in somewhat hostile environment) since day one. Looking back, that wacko left-wing prof had an impact on me, albeit on my own terms and I am very happy with the outcome.
After reading your background here (and on other threads) and offering my background here, Sven, you and I have only scratched the surface (although in different places) in life experiences and we all have some level of naivete no matter how many years we’ve lived thus far. I wouldn’t take Weirddave’s statements too critically.
COL:
Bowling on Saturdays? Nope.
Golf on Saturdays? Probably. Golf (unlike bowling) is a life experience in itself, but that’s another story for another day.
As for forty years in a factory, that’s one life experience I’d rather not live, even though it is a life experience in it’s own right. Remember, working at a factory only takes a fraction of your overall lifetime; what you do off the clock is just as important.