I am tired of my boss. I QUIT

Background: I am 26 years old and I am a Lawyer.
When I graduated, (almost 3 years ago), I landed a job in an small law firm. We were four lawyers and because the firm managed the account of a bank and several important buissness of the area, the job was good, not because of the money, (the senior lawyer was always tight with the it), but because of the learning experience.-
Today we are only two lawyers, (my boss and I), and most of our clients are gone.-
In argentina it’s pretty common that you enter into a law firm earning less than the secretary, over the years you progress till the day you earn part of the profits.-
Well profits are still good and I’ve been promised several times that I would became a minority partner in them… always there is an excuse.-
The worst part is that my boss seems to have an emotional disorder: one day he is a gentleman and the next he complains and screams like a child.
For a year I tried to find another job. It’s difficult because the market is tough these days and also because I work all day and I really don’t have much time left to search for one. I am a hard working an inteligent enough, I am confident that I can find another one given time.-
I threatened to quit if he continued behaving like that, but I always back down because I fear being out of work.
Last time I made my threat he took it seriously enough to start changing his ways. But today he was abusive once more.
So I am quitting. It will be tough for a few months but: I am single and my parents can help.

To make it pit worthy: Goodbye you fucking monkey, go learn some manners in the zoo.-

In order to finish: tell me your experiences so that I can see that quitting and abusive work is not the end of the world and that at the end everything will be for the best.

Sorry, no real stories, but I wanted to pop in to wish you luck.

I just wanted to wish you well also.

Quitting is a tough thing to do. It’s always easier to find a job when you have one, but you are young, and don’t seem to have much in the way of financial responsibilities (no spouse, children). You shouldn’t put up with workplace crap if you don’t have to. And fortunately for you, you don’t have to.

Best of luck in your job search, you lucky bastage! I think we all have wished at one time or another in our careers to tell our boss to go to hell. You, my friend, are free!

It’s not the end of the world. It’s the beginning of the rest of your life! (I read that in a fortune cookie once).

Better off quitting when you feel like it, than waiting for the asshole to fire you. You spend too much time at work to be miserable at it. You’re young, you’re single, adventure.

Quitting a sucky job and walking out on the spot was one of the best things I ever did. I ended up with a higher paying job doing something I enjoyed much more.

Here’s hoping you have the same kind of luck!

I once walked out of a job because of an abusive boss. I tossed the keys on the desk, said I wouldn’t be back, and please mail my final check to my house. It felt great.

Less than three months later, I landed a job that I’d had my eye on for two years. I loved it.

Good luck, and hope your situation works out as well.

Every person I know that has left a shitty job - and I mean every person, myself included - has gone on to bigger and better things. Yeah so you might be short of cash for a bit. Yeah it might suck for a while. Within a year it will be a distant memory, and many of my friends admit that they look back on those few ‘bleak’ months with a bit of nostalgia.

You’re young and ambitious. Don’t wait around - go out and find the right job for you.

Good luck - but I suspect you won’t need it.

I just quit too. Good luck!

I’m from Spain.

I went to graduate school in the US. The job market in Spain was bleak at the time: 24% official unemployment rate, not counting people who’d graduated college less than 2 years before.

After two years of graduate work, things started going downhill, but I just held on. My second article was about to be printed and, once it was, all I’d be missing was a “research proposal”, my thesis, and to defend both. Piece of cake.

Then the article got printed - without my name. 60% of it was my work (I could prove it, btw, since it had been my “oral exam”), yet my name didn’t appear anywhere. When I went to my boss and asked him about it, he laughed in my face and told me that I was the best researcher he’d ever met and that he was darned if he was going to let me go in less than 11 years - which is the time he’d calculated he could have me for free, between my own government’s grants and university jobs.

I went to the graduate advisor, who was from Spain like myself but who also was the other professor whose name appeared in the article and who had been in my oral. His response was “ah, what will you do, like he said you’re a foreigner, you can’t do anything”. Aaaay, poor baby was having a depression.

Forget about talking with the department manager: the fucker had tried to flunk me out of the school because he was pissed I hadn’t asked to work with him. He’d taught a subject about which he didn’t know a thing, given As to his students, Cs to everybody else, a D to me. So, he’d put “on probation” every student who wasn’t interested in working for him. I knew his response would be “so come work for me”.

I found out that I had enough credits to take a Master’s without Thesis, went and talked with my advisor again. He said the same as before. I left him chuckling to himself.

I went to another professor, a Puerto Rican I respected very much (very no-nonsense kind of guy), explained the situation to him and asked him to speak with the other two and convince them that I was serious when I said I’d leave if things didn’t improve. He did. He was very angry, they didn’t take him seriously either.

Going to the dean of graduate studies crossed my mind, but at this point I was quite fed up. So now I have an MS, and my ex-advisor is now working in the University of Santa Patata instead of being in one of the best-funded schools in the world.

My next employer was also in the US. After I’d worked with them for a year, their legal department got in cahoots with my lawyer and decided it was “best for everybody involved” if I stayed in the country but without a work permit. This body involved didn’t agree and managed to convey to Human Resources the following announcement before leaving the country: “your lawyers are lying to you”. After some research, HR found out that over 1/3 of their employers didn’t hold work permits - I hear the scene was quite interesting and lacked only a few pints of blood to make Tarantino happy.

Spent the next two years holding short-term jobs while helping care for Dad while he died. Shortly after he did, I joined a local factory in an entry-level position. My boss was a bit of an ass, but the parts of his job that he didn’t like and foisted on me were things I like, so we were both happy. He was asked to take part in an international project but hates to travel, so I was offered it instead. After myself and another entry-level guy managed to turn a little factory in Spain into the locomotive for the project, I was offered a new job within the company (making more than the ex-boss, hihi!).

The company fired myself and the other 3 europeans who’d been in the international team at the end of the project. Their policies insisted that we had to go back to our old jobs or, if said jobs didn’t exist anymore (as was the case), to equivalent jobs in our country of origin. “A structural problem”, my current boss called it in my interview with him - I took note of the turn of phrase for the next time I’m doing the rounds.

Next job brought me to Costa Rica, for a specific project. At one point I was two months ahead of schedule, yet my boss insisted I had to stay there for 12 hours every day (excuse me you effing moron, that’s both illegal and stupid, you should reward your good workers, not punish them). I had medical problems: shakes, fever, allergies, vertigo… but, because it wasn’t anything he’d ever got, he refused to acknowledge them (otoh, being hungover was ok).

I had already decided to quit when I started getting calls from companies in Spain that had my resume on file (where were they last year, when I was unemployed for 6 months?), talked with them, got several offers, selected the project that was closest to home (the salary and complication level were similar).

That project had been terribly messed up by the previous people; “my part” had gotten a treatment that would amount to taking the carburator off a car and then wondering why it doesn’t work. Since the carburator had been replaced by a fancy schmatzy piece, I had to explain very slowly that this piece now had to be connected to everything else - or given up. My coworkers never said “no” to the client, but they also never followed up on the stuff they’d said “yes” to.

But because I was 2 hours from home, I couldn’t quit without divorcing the family. Then I got a job offer in my hometown :slight_smile: and here I am, trying to learn a whole bunch of new names and making 5 times more than I was making just 5 years ago.

I left a well-paid but routine programming job to take an ‘interesting’ job in a small office.

After 3 months, my employers revealed there was a huge hole in the accounts and that they were going to sack all the office staff, leaving me to do all the work.

I resigned instead.

After a short while, I got a steady job, but had no commitments (e.g. house). A year later I landed my dream job - and could immediately move to take it. :smiley:

May you be as lucky!

I left a job (walked out - no job lined up - just bailed), started temping at a good company, and ten years later, am still here and the money I make compared to the toughness of the job is really kinda sick.

It WILL work out.

I share with you my saga:

Rant the first

Rant the second, in which I quit.

Best decision I ever made. It was bumpy for a while, but i’ve finally found a job I adore, and when I look back I still shudder at how long I put up with their abuse. The worst thing is, an abusive boss does such a number on your confidence and belief in your abilities, especially if it’s your first job out of school (mine was). I wish you the best of luck. It’s good that you’re going before it gets worse. Near the end, I was fantasizing about hurting myself to get out of work, and the case of burnout and depression I took with me took years to truly get rid of. I was always taught that being unemployed was always worse than having a shitty job. That’s not even remotely true.

I have been self employed for about 11 months now, some of the best times of my life. I make all the calls, I do the work, I collect the fees. When one of my subs does the work, I still get paid for work I didn’t even do.

My first real job out of school was for a dinky newspaper in Middle of Nowhere, Oregon. The Editor in Chief was a real swinging-dick, type, who thought the way to keep you in line was to subtly threaten to fire you. Keep in mind I was making $10/hour, and could’ve made the same pumping gas in Seattle. They acted like I should’ve been grateful.
My immediate editor was a small-town nimrod who’d left the place just long enough to get her degree and then immediately moved back. Her idea of leadership was to wait behind Swinging Dick while he dressed you down, then after he walked away, step up and repeat everything he just said.
In my time there I covered murders, horrific accidents, dead children, etc. It was horribly negative and depressing, and I got exactly zero emotional support of any kind. Not everyone I worked with was an asshole; in fact, I made a few good friends. But I’ll treasure forever handing the Editor my notice and seeing the look on his face when I said I was leaving to be a security guard because it paid more.

From a post in Obsidian’s second thread that she linked above:

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You know there’s something wrong with your company when you announce you’re quitting, and the person’s reaction is to hug you and say ‘Congratulations!’.

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That’s what happened to my brother when he quit his job last year; well, officially he got fired, which means he got unemployment benefits. His old boss was batshit crazy (drug addict, manic) but valued people’s work; the new boss considered all admin work as “worthless”. One day the boss tells him “if you weren’t the worker’s representative I’d fire you right now”. Bro says “hey, if that’s your only reason to keep me on, all it would take me to give up the post is five minutes and a DIN A4, I’ve no interest in staying in a place I’m not valued”.

Next Sunday there was an ad in the paper; he sent his resumé in but didn’t expect to get any kind of response for at least two weeks. They called him on Monday, interviewed him Thursday (during the Sanfermines, second week in July) he went to the interview in his red-and-whites), told him they’d wait until August to see what other resumes they got before making a decision.

My own town’s fiestas are at the end of July. That year’s pre-fiestas concerts included one by Amaral. When they got to a line in one of their songs that talks about going out with friends to celebrate that one of them’s been fired from a shitty job, we and some other people who knew my brother turned around and pointed at him, and he was doing victory signs.

First week of August we were in Prague on vacation and he got a call asking could he start on the 16th (the 15th is a national holiday).