I am truly sorry if I have chosen the wrong forum for this thread. Please, mods, move it if necessary. I have looked at the guidelines, and I am just not sure whether here or the Pit is the place. My husband’s family has been struggling for 2 years now; there are rifts in what was a seriously happy family; my husband has lost a good friend (George) and his depression has been a monster since this all started.
I curse my husband’s 30yo niece “Gertie” for callously manipulating her younger cousin “Belle” into an affair with Gertie’s husband “George”, through playing on the hero-worshipping emotions and lack of sense of a 16yo girl-woman, together with a hearty helping of alcohol, marijuana and parties to make her feel grown up. This allowed Gertie to pursue her own extramarital affair.
I curse George for thinking with his dick, and conspiring with Gertie to allow him to slake his lust at the expense of a vulnerable young woman.
I curse Gertie’s mother (SIL) for knowing about this before it was exposed, and scheming with Gertie to try to make Gertie look like a shining innocent.
I curse Gertie and SIL for using an excuse to get my husband to visit the house when they knew George and Belle were home alone, so he could discover them.
I curse Gertie’s father (BIL) because his belief- in the face of all subsequent evidence – that Gertie is entirely innocent, and her marriage was wrecked by Belle, has lead him to bluster and threaten and alienate Gertie’s mother “Hilda” and father “Bert”, my husband and I, and assorted other family members.
I curse the sorrow and anger and stress that led to my husband’s other sister having a sudden cardiac event and dying despite her husband and her 17yo son giving her CPR for 25 minutes until paramedics arrived.
I curse all of we family members who did not see a problem; who knew Belle had a crush on George, but were reassured by Gertie that George was just “letting her down carefully” because ”we know she can be emotional and vulnerable”.
And I curse myself because, to my sorrow and shame, deep down inside I pit Belle for not saying NO to an affair with a married man…