Well, update, in case anyone’s interested.
I’m turning in my notice. Between both jobs I’m working seven days a week, I’m not seeing my family on the weekends, I’m starting to short-change my real job, and I’m getting stretched too thin. I wish I could stick with it, but we’re rearranging some of our finances and we should be okay.
I think I’m also a bit old to work in retail, with a bunch of entry level kids who think it’s great fun to regale me with stories (in front of customers!) about how they hurt their ankle because they were too drunk to drive and let their (under-aged) drunk friend drive them home, or flipping each other with towels in the dining room while we’re still open, or comparing dirty pictures on their cell phones. After working for years in a (mostly) professional setting, I don’t have the patience for such shenanigans. (Yes yes, I know, those damn kids keep running across my yard too.)
The customers are fine, but it’s not the most efficiently run place. I can’t tell you how many times we’ve run out of the most basic stuff, and we get to tell the customers, who aren’t exactly pleased. I can understand coming it at 8pm and finding out we’re out of a certain bagel, but to be out of butter?
Still, it wasn’t the worst thing I’ve ever done. The managers, more my age and with whom I get along fine, are great, and when one lady bitched because she thought I was rude (I wasn’t, she just couldn’t get what she wanted) the manager said he knew she was exaggerating, and teased me about my “people” skills for the rest of the shift. He told me he’d seen me in action, and if there had been anything to her complaint, he would have pulled me into the office for a chat. Which he didn’t.
So, there’s comes a point where one realizes one is high enough up the corporate ladder (ha!) that leaving at 4pm is not easily accomodated, and that one is too old and has too many other responsibilities to flit from job to job to bed to job again. In college I worked two part time jobs AND went to school full time. I think those days are done.