Fantastic User, I think you completely missed the point behind the statement that offended you so much. It was as hypothetical question - it was not meant in any way to be taken seriously. I think that is obvious in the full context of this thread.
I have read this whole thread, and I am now tired.
The thing I want to know is, why the HELL did you ask the vegetarian why they were veggie? What possessed you? Why do you care?
I understand that there are these “food nazis” out there that are total nags and take every opportunity to preach. They will go out of their way to approach you and tell you how evil you are for eating meat. How bloody useless of them (in my opinion.) I doubt they have “converted” one person to veggie with those annoying tactics.
But you asked someone? You wanted to know more about their vegetarianism? Sheesh. Why? The answer they give usually distresses you. I wonder why you care, anyway. Why would someone else’s eating habits bother you so? Even if they think they are “superior” to you, so what?
Yes, in case you hadn’t guessed, I am veggie. I maybe preached (a little) the first year of my vegginess, and then it got old. Now, I don’t say anything unless I am forced to. I tell you, almost without exception, I get all sorts of questions, (mostly rudem annoying or tiresome) from people regarding my vegetarianism.
I just want to be left alone with my own personal eating habits, but nooooo… Some moron has to ask me questions, argue with me, offer up the exciting comment “Oh, I LOVE red meat.” (Yawn. I know a lot of people eat red meat. That’s what those packages of meat are for in the grocery store. I have seen people eat meat before. I used to eat meat when I was younger. I will not swoon at the sight of it.) Give up all these tired, lame attempts to offend or upset me.
Oh my, if I had a nickle for every time someone told me how much they LOVE red meat… Or when they wave meat in front of my face, or pretend to “feed” it to me. Or argue with me with the old and lame “plants have feelings too” line. Sigh. (FYI: Plants have feelings, fine. You need to feed A LOT of plants to an animal, then kill the animal to eat it. A LOT of plants die in order to feed an animal that is to be slaughtered, and then you eat the animal. I prefer to just eat the plant - saves a lot of resources, and a helluva lot of plants.)
I see a lot of people here who are just plain bugged by vegetarianism. I don’t care if you are bugged. Be bugged. Just leave us alone. Don’t ask us why we are vegetarians! If you encounter some preachy veggie who wants to annoy you, go at it, argue with them. But when you ASK THEM first, what do you expect? And, why do you care if their reasons are nutty? What are they taking away from you? They are leaving all the good cuts of meat for you, aren’t they? What’s your beef? (Sorry, I just couldn’t resist. :))
When someone asks me why I am veggie, I usually say because I never was a big fan of meat anyway, & I feel it is easier to not eat it, and I don’t like the idea of eating animals. I shrug my shoulders and act slightly bored. Some people accept this and move on, others want to argue with me, rationalize their own eating habits (I DIDN’T ASK about their eating habits, and I made no real or implied judgments on their eating habits.) It is the same thing, over and over again. It is getting really old.
Please, when you encounter your next vegetarian, DON’T ASK THEM ANYTHING ABOUT IT. The next vegetarian you meet may be me, and I’d sure appreciate not being asked.
(Of course, if they want to preach to you first, then the ball’s in your court - argue away, I don’t care.)