I have decided to become an atheist (hypothetical)

You pretty much nailed it. I was discussing a possible consequence of atheism. If you must know, the question I was exploring myself was the notion of moral pedagogy as provided by religion. Most people here seem to be arguing that they came to their morals by reasoned analysis, which I tend to doubt. Most of us came by our behavior in Kindergarten. We were taught hte basic social mores, and have only refined them as we got older. Most of our morals are based off of a principal of noncoercion.

One of the issues here, is the extremely offensive, “You’re a sociopath if you need authority to be moral.”, argument, but of course we let it slide, because we as theists are expected to be more tolerant than atheists. Any number of insults about hte magical sky pixie, flying spaghetti monster, or invisible pink unicorn are par for the course. We are expected to justify the inquisition, or Islamic fundamentalism, as those sorts of religious expressions are the default, and we are practicing some sort of anomaly if we behave in a way that is more kind and tolerant than that. Even though the entire new testament is basically a message telling you to be kind to people, we are expected to defend against private piques and prejudices regularly. Now, of course, turn around and make one thread about a possible outcome of the loss of faith, in order to illustrate the role that religion plays in some people’s lives and people scream bloody murder as though you are about to institute a pogrom. Though, I can count multiple times I have seen atheist pile-ons in the last week alone, and I cannot remember the last time I saw a religious pile-on here at this forum.

No one came by their morals rationally. You weren’t born with a copy of “The Groundwork of the Metaphysic of Morals.”, in your hand. You were instructed by trial and error by adults whose fundamental morality had changed very little from the previous generations. Every once in a while, a big philosophical movement comes along that changes the culture and it’s mores in a significant way. We saw this in the 60s as well as during the Enlightenment. Both had massive repercussions, violent social upheaval across the board. As Pochacco so eloquently illustrated, one does not come by their morals individually, they come by their morals based upon what society expects of them. The current culture’s morals are based on widespread agreement. As I pointed out in regards to the 60s and the enlightenment, that widespread agreement does not change particularly often. You learned to behave in social situations through years of carrot and stick politicking on the part of your parents and school teachers.

So besides being offensive, arguing that gaining morals from authority is in any way dishonorable, is just plain wrong. We are all subject to the authority that binds us together whether that be religion, kinship groups, or the state. We all come by our morals from some sort of higher authority. It is solipsistic to believe otherwise. Any sort of moral learning that we achieve later in life merely builds upon the imprinting and conditioning of early childhood. Sometimes on rare occasions we come to a paradigm shifting event that gives us the opportunity to take stock of just what we believe. This is what I was describing here. I wasn’t saying that all atheists are sociopaths, I was just taking atheism to a total extreme, where it nullifies everything that one thought previously to be true. For the theist, God is the absolute truth. If you lose the absolute truth, what trust may you put in the lesser truths? This isn’t a reflection upon all atheists at all, it is a reflection upon how significant an event loss of faith really is. Now, likely most people don’t just up and lose their faith one day, it probably trickles out to a point where they wonder if they ever really had it in the first place, or in some cases they just pretended to have it so they could fit in with the crowd, and then one day decide it’s no longer relevant, and they don’t care what comes by it. However, for people with strong faith, it isn’t simply a crutch to lean on, it is a strong and palpable force in their lives informing upon every decision. The issue at hand here is that atheists quite often do not have any toleration of faith at all, it’s just politically correct make-nice words. The very idea that it is a ‘mere crutch’, is a dismissal that it possibly has any validity at all. It isn’t a valid part of someone’s life, it’s a binky for the stupid and the weak, therefore if someone illustrates a scenario where someone has their life turned inside out by the loss of faith, then they must be trolling.

See this proves that it’s not about really debating for you, it’s about ganging up and laughing with your buddies.

I was posting from my phone.

I’m not sure you are defending very well the assertion that my morality is “defined” by Christianity. Certainly, I don’t see a “connection” as being a “definition.”

Why is it that I make long 750-1000 word posts about the topic to people willing to show good faith, and they are overshadowed by the terse dismissive ones to people who clearly just want to needle me?

mswas, on what specific religion do you base your ethics and/or morals on?

Well, for your sake I hope you weren’t posting #221 by phone!

I return insult with snarkiness, and fallacy with mockery, in proportion. Don’t start it, and you won’t get it back. I actually like debate, but I’m not seeing much of it here. I mean, you poposed a straw man…it has been amply knocked down. Simple as that. Unless you have some reason to think the atheists here haven’t described alternative atheistic moral systems to the one in your OP?

Not to be adversarial, but I did. It took me a hell of a long time, too; I didn’t become fully moral until my mid-teens. (Assuming I’m even ‘fully’ moral now.) It did not come from my parents. (In fact, my dad has openly said “If I don’t know about it, then it’s not against the rules.” :eek: ) I did not learn about it from my teachers; they were just another system to game or not (mostly not; like the government, they had consequences). I didn’t get them from books; I only read fiction, and regardless had read for years and years without it effecting my morality whatsoever.

I admit that I might be the one lone example (I only know theists around here (here being my physical locale), so I don’t know anyone who wasn’t spoonfed their morality) - but I do exist, and did develop my own morality through rational analysis. How many counterexamples do you need? Or are you just going to not believe me?

begbert2 Well in fairness, I’ll take it back. Based on your description of growing from being feral to a moral individual, I can believe that you did.

I will change it to, “It’s rare that someone comes by their morals rationally.”, most may in retrospect examine their morals rationally, but by and large morals are inculcated at an early age.

Possible according to whom ? That looked like a religiously motivated parody, not a realistic possibility. Especially not from a known believer, who probably doesn’t want to convince people that believers are sociopathic maniacs.

If the truth is offensive, too bad. You ARE sociopathic if authority is all that keeps you from behaving sociopathically.

And those “insults” are made, because they illustrate the weakness of the believers own claims, and because the believers have no good rebuttals ( being wrong causes problems like that ). And they are only “insulting” because the truth is insulting to religion. Religion is stupid, often destructive, and it’s baseless; there’s no way to speak the truth about it without being insulting.

They and similar things are hardly an “anomaly”. An anomaly would be one guy in Hoboken, not millions of people over millennia.

And when you claim that religions are the source of all morality, of course people are going to point out that the people who believe most fervently tend to be the least moral.

When the “authority” in question is imaginary or might as well be, and when it’s followers claim that they have Absolute Truth, it’s perfectly sensible to point out that their claims are baseless.

You know, you are making the same claim about theists that I sometimes do; that to the extent you believe you are rather Borglike, empty of anything but the religion which has consumed your personhood.

It is a crutch, at best. A defect.

And toleration and respect are not the same thing. Tolerating the religious means that I don’t shoot them, beat them, fire them for their beliefs. It doesn’t mean I have an obligation to pretend that I respect their beliefs, or refrain from criticism,. You are, unsurprisingly, trying to define “tolerance” as “shut up and agree with me”. Typical of the religious.

A combination of Christian and Enlightenment principles. A smattering of Eastern thought in there as well, my Father was into Buddhism for a while, and I find a bit of resonance with Hinduism.

MSWAS - you have spent probably hours on this thread. Have you read Existentialism is a Humanism by Sartre and Why I Am Not a Christian by Russell.
This would probably be a better use of your time than this thread.

Because as soon as a person let’s you know early that they don’t believe there’s a god, you stop reading?

Because despite the attempt at openness - you are still being a bit pompous. Someone has to break the snarkcycle. You posted the OP. An obvious strawman.

It’s easy to make the “sensible” argument that you don’t win by getting mad, you win by making the points necessary. Except at some point - it just gets old. And it feels like “not again.” It happens on both sides.

Fact is, you have reason to feel as you did and do in the OP (in response or inspiration by DT). Fact is others then have room for taking offense.

I do weary of the we’re-more-moral contests on both sides of this debate.

No, I stop listening as soon as they use the argument that there is no God anyway to invalidate a discussion on religion.

You all are using strawman incorrectly. I wasn’t characterizing anyone’s argument in anyway, so it cannot be a strawman.

Well, you aren’t required to participate are you? You’re choosing to focus on the snark posts rather than the thought out argument posts. Perhaps you should look at what information you’re choosing to engage?

Sure that’s fine, if they are offended that’s ok. What bothers me is that when I clarify they argue in defense of their recreational outrage. I am not allowed to clarify, no, their initial umbrage is the only correct interpretation. This despite many others, atheists included, understanding the intended tone.

Yea, me too.

Why isn’t Christian morality sufficient?

Doesn’t Christian morality alone “define” our morality?

Do the non-Christian morals detract from your overall morality?

Does the addition of other morals to those that derive from Christ make you more moral than Christ?

If you are able to improve your morality by looking outside of Christian morality, shouldn’t it follow that others, such as atheists, can as well?

blinkingblinking Thanks, I am reading the one by Russell.

Because I didn’t grow up in a purely Christian environment.

No.

No.

No.

Yes.

Edited to Add this line: Wanted to get back to some people’s arguments which I wasn’t able to write on before. Sorry for the long delay.

On not believing in objective right or wrong.

The problem with this is that it always a self-negating argument. The existance or objective right or wrong is an objective truth. If there is only relative truth… there is no such thing as the objective truth that there is only relative truth. There may be no morality, right or wrong, objective or not, but there cannot be a relative morality beyond any person’s whim. And as I’ve been trying a lot to say here, your whim or feeling is no reason.

It negates its own argument in the specific. Any given argument you make to someone would be countered simply by them holding the same concept (Moral Relativism) you do! That is, they would simply say that your argument is your opinion, and they happen to hold a different one.
There are always consequences.

Well, no, there are not. Plenty of people get away with very bad things. And even if justice was absolute and perfect (which is impossible), this would still not be a moral judgement. You cannot say a thing is wrong because it has certain consequences. Being born with the wrong genes can have terrible consequences. it is not wrong. You may say: but you didn’t choose to be born with the wrong genes! very well: standing in the path of a hungry tiger may have terrible consequences. That may make it stupid but it does not make it wrong. You may say, that doesn’t harm poeple: but shooting a robber may kill him, even if he could only have stolen a dollar. But that does not intrinsically make it wrong.

And if you do believe that consequences make a thing wrong, you must still have another, objective moral scale to determine what a “bad” consequence even is!
Empathy as a moral judgement.

I get into this below with Der Trihs. Empathy is a prfoundly useful tool, but absent human reason it amounts to nothing. It may motivate an individual, but someone who lacks empathy cannot be said to be wrong based merely on the fact that the speaker (who says the person who lacks empathy) does have empathy.
Power as a moral motivator. Society versus the Individual

The problem with the idea that society is right because it is more powerful is that first, it’s self-negating, and second, it makes no sense.

It’s self negating in that it asks people to selflessly defend something which does not exist and which they would value only for their own selfish reasons. Defending society, or carrying out its dictates, is meaningless absent a standard of value which tell us what form of society to have, much less what to do about it.

It really does make no sense. Society cannot be the judge here: it is one of the things under judgement, if any judgements can be made. If they cannot be, then society is a tool to be discared when it becomes inconvenient.

No, I wanted to raise it because I think it is an important argument. In the real world, raising an argument that has not been mentioned, describing it, and offering a critique is considered good form. A strawman is when I make a false argument put into the mouth of my opponent. I know no one made the argument yet, but I think it’s actually a good argument and deserves a hearing.

In fact, I think you actually made the strawman -> that I made a strawman! :smiley:

Simply put, if you are guided solely by emotion your arguments can never acutally mean anything to anyone outside of you. Which makes arguments irrelevant. You would have no way to actually convince anyone else except by asserting your own arbitrary authority.

Now that’s an interesting assertion. You’ve just made a moral judgemnt that society’s interests outweigh our individual wishes. but I think, if I read your arguments correctly, there’s is no moral

It wasn’t, specifically. it was a reflection of those who, at the end of the day, believe in nothing, except, possibly, power. That is their God, and their sole source of “good”.

I probably should note here that the Gods in DnD are pretty elemental. An emoiton, an action, a viewpoint: this is pretty much what makes them up. Liolth, the Drow Goddess, is basically the pursuit of unlimited Power for its own sake, though she’s tinged with racism and pleasure seeking.

The point is that, stripped of any objective moral truths (Lolth has none, only th command, “Go and take whatever you can get!”), they actually constructed… a raional society. No rules except Thou Shall Not Get Caught. Some of the authors made them overly-murderous for no reason to the point at which their society would collapse, but that’s a later addition. You don’t need a mass-murdering society to have one without moral rules.

Some did. I responded. Why should it offend you? But moreover, people are in essence following it as a moral principle and motivator based on nothing except their moral instinct, without an objective argument for it. Including yourself (as we’ll see). Given your propensity for deriding other people’s Gods, I thought you ought to be aware that everyone, including yourself, admits some supernatural authority. Or perhaps extra-natural is a better term here. That is, it cannot be derived from nature.

I am not here talking about specifically a deity in that sense. but a God it is.

But what is it which tells you society is worth preserving? Your comfort? Fine, but you cannot make any arguement about it to someone who doesn’t care about your comfort.

These all really go together. You are assuming that your personal whims have an objective foundation. You condemn a man for following others and abuse him for not doing as you wish. It seems you have some good moral intuitions.

However, you don’t seem to comprehend thatyour moral intuitions are not arguments. They’re feelings, nothing more or less. And they have no objective value; emoito must be tested according to reason to become anything but. I once told you that in all the universe, no matter how hard you look, right next door or in the farthest star, you will never, ever find a single iota of a smidgeon of a shadow of a reason to believe that your opinions are TRUE. That does not mean they are not. But your repeated assertions that they simply ARE does not constitute an argument.

Der Trihs, you seem to think I’m attacking you. I think you hold more or less decent principle. I think you don’t understand that you aren’t seeing their foundation. In fact, they’ve a much firmer foundation than you think, one which, you seem, dislike intensely. You cannot say that your principles are TRUE absent a standard of value greater than any human thing, or any natural thing.

No matter. I admit you try my patience… a lot. On the other hand, you’d make a fine Christian. Yes, that was a compliment. You have a certain fierceness about you which I like. And I think you have a hard time coming to accept that your opponents can also be good men. The fact that in this post you just said that no one who disagrees with you can be good (logical shift from: morality can begin only absent religion) is one thing which tips me off.

G. K. Chesterton was a great writer, albeit often inscruptable. He was (and presumably is) a devout Catholic. And he used to debate with many of the leading minds of his day, like Oscar Wilde and George Bernard Shaw. Sometimes I think he was right, sometimes wrong. He was hardly free of the pervailing anti-Semitic culture, for instance, although he was appalled by Hitler’s anti-Jewish actions long, long before gas chambers were a twinkle in the monster’s eye. But I think that everyone who knew him would say that whatever his opinions about this topic or that one, he treated everyone as themselves, no more or less. He wasn’t afraid of making fun or being made fun of. And these were people whom, no offense, probably much better and stronger arguments against Christianity than you or I ever could dream of. Yet, Chesterton was a friends with Shaw and Wilde. Quite liked them despite themselves.

I don’t hate you. I wish you well; your anger makes me think that you probably need the best. Perhaps you should remember that. And while you may revile me for it, no matter whom in world might hate you, there is a power which does not. We are told to call that Jehovah, The Father, The Messiah, Jesus Christ - and Love. Incarnate Love.

Perhaps the next time you wish to scream at us and say that atheism is the start of morality, you may wish to remember that.

What does that have to do with god?

It’s offensive to you because it is true. If you found out, with utter certainty that there was no god tomorrow you would live your life like a criminal? If so I’m demonstrably a better person than you by any measure. Because there is no god and I’m rational enough to face that. Yet I rape no children, kill no neighbors and maintain a healthy relationship.

That is the biggest hunk of bullshit ever typed on the intarweb. Ask a fundie what he thinks about atheists or muslims. For fuck’s sake George H.W. Bush thinks atheists can’t be president !

Yet you can’t justify a reason to believe in your babylonian storm god any more than you could to believe in FSM. You ignore the question because you’ve no answer for it.

Perhaps because this forum is dedicated to removing ignorance and that’s all that religion is?

You are suggesting that sociopathy is the logical conclusion at the end of atheism. That each step farther down the atheist ladder is another one closer to moral degeneracy. And that’s ludicrous. It’s a stupid, unfounded assertion and yet you keep repeating it.

If a given person is very faithful of course it’s hard to stop. Because you have to admit to yourself that you’ve been stupid and duped and wasted time, money and opportunity. Just like a cult member. In fact, exactly like a cult member.

Do you dismiss homeopathy? It is better supported than any religion.

And you honestly didn’t think anyone would be offended by what you wrote?

If so you probably didn’t think very hard about it.

Behavioral conditioning in our society is largely guided by judeo-christian principles.

I don’t believe that you came up with your own morality on your own. Did you ever question why it was wrong to murder without prejudgment? Did you ever ask the question not knowing the answer? Not knowing if you might become a murderer because of what you found?

I think that you probably just defaulted to your behavioral conditioning.

Why do I need to justify what they say, but it’s beyond the pale for me to ask you to justify Mao or Stalin?

No, because they show a sincere lack of good faith on the interlocutor. The examples show that he doesn’t care about actually debating, his interest is in abusing me. The fact that you call it a ‘Babylonian Storm God’, which is a rank mischaracterization of the Judeo-Christian God, shows that you are an intolerant bigot with no interest in anything other than being mean.

See, this proves my point. You aren’t interested in debating, you are interested in berating.

No I haven’t asserted any such thing. If you were arguing in good faith, you’d actually read what I write. I am not going to reiterate it again.

I see, well I hope your mission of evangelizing the ignorant to atheism treats you well.

I don’t have an opinion on homeopathy. I don’t understand the physics of liquids well enough to have an opinion.

They can be offended, but they won’t allow me to clarify, that’s their pathos, not mine. Besides, I am far more respectful of your position than you are of mine. I at least consider yours to be a valid outcome. The reciprocal is not true. You see me as an ignorant idiot who needs to be berated into conformity.

See, no good faith, just jingoism.

I’m divided on this one, but I’ll give it to you. I’m kinda in the God=Santa camp, but I do know that that has no real bearing on the legitimacy of discussing religion and belief. It’s a fair point.

You’re right here, too. But I want to make an overly nuanced point. There is a thought, implied and direct, that runs through elements of the religious community that with atheism you fall into some immoral quagmire.

A new co-worker inquired on my atheism (upon learning I once was studying to be a pastor). In the course of the conversation I could tell - and she asked, “do you really think that you can explain and find moral behavior without God?” I responded in the affirmative.

So, no - you aren’t using a strawman. You are using a persistent and annoying falsehood that strikes to the core of atheists (that our very lack of belief means we hump our sisters). The same annoyance theists must surely feel in response to some of the more shrill atheists (I won’t name names this time).

It is an argument based on a falsehood. Somehow that sets off strawman alarms. People feel misrepresented - they say “strawman.” You are right, and have a point. You seem a sensible fellow - you see where people might feel tweaked? (I’m thinking yeah, but it was taken too far so not as inclined to say it now. Or that’s how I’d feel.)

No actually, I’m reading it all. Well… past a certain point - it is rather long. I think I’m understanding your points. I think I’m starting to see where you are trying to go. And the problems others have with some of your posts.

I’d rather find an easy common ground as people (after my own early missteps) than jump right into this ummm… mix of educated and respectful discourse and rounds of adolescent he-did-it-first-ism (a legit claim in my book, but sooner or later - an eye for an eye and everyone’s blind.)

I think I see and get that. Good or bad, OP’s are hard to get back. Especially on religion and politics. I’ll admit it, I was upset upon reading the OP because I weary of VERY similar arguments. And ensuing clarifications too easily get lost in the jumble - especially on a thread moving as quickly and wordily as this one.

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Pavlov’s dogs are an example of behavioral conditioning. How is salivation to a bell guided by judeo-christian principles?