I helped a stranger this morning

I left for work this morning as usual, about 20 minutes later than I should to actually be in time, got into my vehicle and started through the parking lot (I live in a condo) As I approached the building that’s right next to mine I saw an elderly woman leaning on a car that was parked right behind her building, just outside her back porch. I thought the way she was leaning on the car didn’t look quite right. She was facing the car, leaning forward with both hands on the hood. She was far enough away from the car that she was almost bent double which is why it looked like maybe she was having difficulty.

Meanwhile, I’m driving and wondering if she’s OK when I see her fall. :eek:

I pulled up right behind the car she was hanging on to and got out to see if she’s OK. She’s laying on the pavement, partly behind the car she was leaning on. I ask if she’s OK and she says no. I went over thinking I don’t know if I should move her or anything because she might have broken something.

After talking to her for a second I can see that she’s not really hurt, nothing broken, just took a wrong step off the curb and went down. I helped her to a sitting position and just about this time a man comes out of the back door of the closest condo.

I’m pretty sure that is her condo and the man is somehow related to her though he’s much younger than she looks. I’m trying to help her up but she’s not a small woman and really needs lots of help. I ask him to help and she tells me that he can’t help. This is when I realize that he’s walking very gingerly. Still he comes over to her and with me pulling and him helping a little we get her to her feet. Now she’s standing on the driver’s side of the car leaning a little and getting her bearings. She’s got a skinned knee but no other visible signs of injury.

He asks her to come inside and sit for a minute and she says “No, I have to go pay a bill.” I ask again if she’s sure she’s OK. She assures me that she is. I suggest that she stand there for a minute to catch her breath before she leaves and she agrees.

As I leave the man who came out to help thanks me. I got back in my van and continued on my way to work but was thinking that maybe I should have stayed a little longer to make sure she was really OK. She had somebody there with her but I still felt like I should have stayed longer to make sure.

Really the whole thing took probably less than 5 minutes but it sure got my adrenaline going this morning. I hope she’s not hurt any worse than the skinned knee.

The sad part about it is most people would have kept on driving. Good work.

I had a total stranger help me out last week.

I was at Abbott’s Magic Get-Together. It was Saturday afternoon and I was driving to the pharmacy to see if they had something. They were closed, so I just took a walk for a little while down to the lake. About 30 minutes later, I walked back up to my van and tried to start it.

Absolutely nothing.

The battery had died on me in the 30 minutes I was away. Just great! I wasn’t too far from my campground where I knew one of my friends would give me a jump, so I started walking. As I started, a guy that lives kitty-corner from the pharmacy where I was parked asked me if I needed help. Not only did he give me a jump, he also rode with me to the nearest Auto-Zone (in the next town), buy a new battery, and even helped me install it.
And he did all this so I wouldn’t miss the Saturday evening show that night.

I was so grateful that I bought him and his fiance tickets to that show.

It’s people like this guy, and like the OP, that have helped restore a little faith in my view of the world.

Last year, the alternator on my car went out several miles from my house. A friend came to pick me up, run me to the parts store and then back to my car, but wasn’t able to stay and help fix it. I barely had enough money to buy the alternator, and certainly not enough money to pay a mechanic to replace it. So, I take the repair book and perch under the hood, attempting to figure out how to fix my car.

Although several people stopped to ask me if “everything was alright”, no one offered much more than that. Until a couple stopped by. The husband spent THREE HOURS helping me replace the alternator on my car (and no, he wasn’t a mechanic, but a guy who worked in an office “with computers”). I managed to get their address and sent them a very grateful thank you card. I also sent them a Christmas card this past year (and they sent one to me as well).

I am very thankful for their assistance, and those like them. You never know when an interaction will have a positive impact on someone else.

Occurances like these are what makes us human.
Years ago I was helped by someone who only asked for payment: Help someone else when you see them in need. I have every since.
BTW I live in assisted housing and we ALWAYS check on our neighbors. Nice, secure feeling. :slight_smile: