I lost a friend and co-worker

I agree that this is extremely inappropriate for this thread.

Understood that OP opened the door to discuss the subject and you are just responding to it. You responded. Point made. Now you are being more than a bit tone deaf. Bow out now.

You may not. Please don’t junior mod.

If you have issues with a post report it.

Damn, Czarcasm, did you just lose a friend in that train crash in DuPont? Man, I hope this year gets better for you.