I love my wife dearly but she is a brainwashed Evangelical Trump supporter

Instead of requiring her to understand your POV, may it be better to form arguments using a frame of reference she already accepts?

"You know, the Bible is full of instances where God has punished entire nations because of the sins and obstinacy of the ruling class- Egypt during Exodus is an obvious example.

“So, honey, what was the sin committed by the United States when God smote us with COVID? If Trump is so Godly, and the Democrats so evil, why did God punish Trump?”

“He didn’t do this.”

“Stop lying to yourself, it is a sin. You saw God literally smite the United States with a plague, killing far more Americans than any other country. So… what was our sin, and why did God need to punish this sin while Trump was President?”

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