I debated on puttng this in GQ, but decided on here, because of the nature of the post. I’m trying to help my brother. He’s been recently released from jail. I’m not quite sure if it’s probation or parole, but I’m pretty sure it’s the latter.
Anyway, unlike his usual pattern, he seems really committed to stay clean. His major problem is his lack of resources. He’s been non-qualified for State aid of anykind, that or he’s not familiar with the system. His parole/probation officer seems interested in only so much that he shows for his appointments. He’s been staying with family friends since his release but that’s becoming untenable as he’s been unable to find work.
I just don’t have the resources myself to help. I’ve just started my own business, but it’s not at the level yet where I could hire him without letting someone else go. I also don’t have the space to house him. My other sibs are likewise not in position where they could help, but we’ve all been surprised by his desire to stay straight. It would take up too much space to go over his past deeds to give you enough info, to prove he’s trying hard, but trust me it’s obvious.
Anyway here’s the idea. My Mom and Uncle live back east. They have contacts that could get him a job and a place to live. My brothers and I can come up with the money to get him there. What we’re wondering is if that would get him in trouble with his parole/probation officer? Is that the kind of request that would be denied? Anyone with experience at this, I’d welcome your comments.
Stuffy