This is going to be hard to do because I don’t want names to come up in Searches, but I’m spitting mad and I have to let it out somewhere.
Most people probably know that I’m deeply involved with this artist, both as a long-time fan (18 years!) and as a friend. Her name is her real name. She was born with a different first name, but was called by her current name ever since she was a few days old (her older brother couldn’t pronounce the birth name and used the other name, and that’s what everyone who knew her called her), and since she considered it her name, she had it legally changed when she was 16. It is absolutely her real, legal name now. She’s an established artist with 11 albums and a worldwide cult following.
This artist has an official website and lots of people often wonder why she doesn’t just use hername.com. The reason is that there’s a male country-western singer from Canada whose NICKNAME is the same as my girl. He has a different real name, but in the past professionally used the nickname. Years and years and years ago he got the doman thatname.com and used it. Well, too bad for my girl, but them’s the breaks.
Well, he quit using the web site years ago and so my girl’s fans (including me) thought, ok, the domain will expire and she can get it. But no, he keeps renewing it, yet not using it. If he used it, that’d be one thing, but he doesn’t. Year after year after year, it keeps on not being used. Search results from the Wayback Machine at the Internet Archive show that the last usage of the domain was on April 21, 2003! Since then it’s been abandoned.
Five years now we’ve been watching, waiting, hoping that he’d see the light and do my girl a kindness by letting her have the domain. But he’s watching, waiting and hoping that she’ll pay him a pretty penny for it. He even put the domain name up on ebay once. Fans, knowing, understanding and having no problem with the fact that that he was using the domain at the time, never checked his site, so none of us knew about the sale. One of us would have bought it, if we’d known, just to give it to her. She would have bought it herself, if he’d contacted her. And yes, he’s known about her since he first got the domain, because fans have written him. Until he abandoned the site, my girl’s fans just thought it was humorous and interesting, and no one had any problem with him. She herself thought their sharing the same name was a hoot, since their styles are so very different. Anyway, since her fans are generally not interested in his genre of music, there weren’t any fans consistently looking at his site, and he didn’t bother to write any of her fans who had had written to him, or try to contact her in any way. So the auction expired with no bids and we come to find out about this ebay sale a couple of years later!
Thinking he’d either put up a new site, or let the domain go, people kept quiet for a few years, but now, it’s obvious he’s NOT going to put up a new site, and he keeps renewing it, he JUST renewed it AGAIN so he’s obviously not going to let the domain go, either out of greed or spite or I don’t know what. At this point it’s just bullying, holding the domain hostage. If he put up a page regarding his own career tomorrow, I’d be fine with it. USE IT, asshole! If you don’t, then you just look like a greedy scumsucking domain name squatter.
I know that there are avenues she can pursue regarding trying to get the domain name, but damn, she’s an indie artist with no financial backing and no money for lawyers and trademarks and shit like that. She’s a decent human being and it hurts me to see her treated like this.
So anyway, just fuck you JC, fuck you!