I’ve googled the various SD threads on black holes, and other sources, but I didn’t see this specific question addressed. Plenty of info on “what happens when you fall into a black hole?” and “why can’t I escape by just moving outwards from the singularity at constant velocity?”, but not this.
So, I fly my space ship towards the monster black hole at the center of Andromeda. From what I’ve read, for sufficiently massive black holes the tidal forces are manageable, so spaghettification isn’t an issue. I also read that I wouldn’t feel anything different at the moment I would cross the event horizon, except that my fate would then be sealed.
Being careful not to cross over, I orbit just at the edge of the EH, and either stick my arm slightly inside, or perhaps a long stick. I obviously can’t pull it back out again, but since the tidal forces aren’t that huge, what would I feel? Could I withdraw my stick/arm, and get back whatever didn’t cross the EH?