I think I got my first taste of age-ism today

Well, I’ve been out of work for a while and so I was very excited by a job lead that promised a very decent wage, and seemed tailor made for my skills. I thought I had a shot at it. So, I have a couple of phone interviews. Last week, however it takes a strange left turn.

Here’s a paraphrased synopsis of last week’s phone interview:

Interviewer: Well, your resume looks terrific and your writing samples are good. We’re mulling over a few other candidates as well of course. By the way, may we have your social security number?

Me: Whaaa? Uh, what for?

Interviewer: Oh, it’s just a formality. We just want it to keep a record of who is applying for this job.

Me: Hmmm, look I really don’t feel comfortable giving my social security number over the phone. If you were to definitely hiring me, that’d be one thing…

Interviewer: (Breezy laugh) Of course, I completely understand. Perhaps your birthdate? We just want to have something to identify you with.

(I thought - but refrained from saying - “You have my NAME, ADDRESS AND PHONE NUMBER don’t you???”)

Me: …Sure. It’s May 12th, 1969.

Interviewer: Thanks so much. We’ll get back to you and let you know what we’ve decided.

So, a week passes by. Nothing. I finally decide to call them myself. After getting put on hold for a long while, I get another HR person: “Hi, we were planning to call you today. Unfortunately, we’ve decided to go with someone else. To be quite honest, we decided we’d prefer someone who’s just out of college for this job.”

A little stunned, I meekly thank them for their answer and hang up.

The job is for a copy-writer. I’ve had almost fifteen years experience copy-writing and copy-editing for a major international magazine and a major internet web-site. But they’d prefer someone “just out of college?”

They could tell from your resume you weren’t just out of college. You may indeed be a victim of age discrimination, but giving your bday didn’t give them ammo they didn’t already have.

As for wanting someone just out of college, it could be more about wanting to only pay an entry-level salary rather than what someone with your experience would want. Also, if you’ve been out of work for a while, a lot of companies won’t hire you. They want someone still working, or only very recently out of work, or someone right out of school.

Not to say that they were right to pass you over at all, or that they did so with good (non-discriminatory) reasons. But … that’s not the only possible reason, and your bday had nothing to do with it.

It was probably a shit job, and they’re looking for someone who wouldn’t recognize it as such. I think you dodged a bullet.

ETA: Sorry… for a second there I actually forgot about this terrible job market. Whether you “dodged a bullet” or not of course depends on your personal circumstances. Just looking for some silver lining is all.

I’m 57 and I had a headhunter flatly ask me my age yesterday. “They are looking for someone who will grow into the job and not quit after a couple years, like some kid fresh out of school might.” I’m not stupid and I offered that I had no intention of retiring anytime soon. I used the “Looking for another job while you are still employed is tacky” ploy, avoiding “I expect this job to be my last and I will die at my workstation” as not a positive spin.

Another asked when I graduated high school and college. I never claimed to be Doogie Howser so this requires only second-grade arithmetic to zone in on how old I am.

Isn’t that illegal, asking for your age and SSN?