I think we’re getting a bit sidetracked here. Whather SamuelA’s scenario is plausible is largely beside the point.
Fermi’s Paradox is saying: An intelligent species could leave evidence of their existence across the galaxy in very little time compared to the age of the galaxy. Why do we see no such evidence?
Now, most descriptions of Fermi’s Paradox imply such evidence should be likely to exist based on what we know, or even we should expect the galaxy to be “teeming” with life, but in fact none of that is necessary.
It’s enough to say that hypothetically there *could have *been evidence, and right now we don’t know why there isn’t, as there are too many unknowns about the likelihood of life, intelligent life, spacefaring life, their motivations etc etc.
The “great filter” idea is that there is a single factor largely responsible. I think in a discussion like this it’s fine to say “I think the great filter is X” (though some may question whether X really works as a fundamental barrier).
It’s also fine to say “I think there’s no great filter; it’s just a combination of factors”. Or simply “Who knows”?
What I take exception to is the idea of “Fermi’s Paradox is stupid because it makes so many assumptions” because that’s a misunderstanding of what the paradox is about. It’s simply asking the question Why do we not see anything?