If women have suitors, what do men have?
Competition.
It’s difficult to think of a word to answer the OP that doesn’t have a second meaning (or a double meaning.) Maybe fall back on the old favorite “bachelorettes?”
Askance
December 9, 2003, 5:50am
22
Wooers - pronounce very carefully
Snake trouser hunters? CRIKEY!
Hoes
(Courtesy of my bud in the city.)
Well, I sent M. the thread last night, as I’ve sent him other threads – he’ll succumb to the greatness of the Dope eventually. I’ve gotten my pal K. reading daily, though he claims he’s too cool to post. Heh. Only a matter of time.
Anyway, here’s M’s take on the thread:
"If women have suitors what do men have?
HEADACHES!"
…that’s a good one. Although it still doesn’t solve the problem,
does it? And while some of the suggestions are aesthetically pleasing,
e.g., inamorata, beau-ettes, woo-ettes (actually, those all sound like
1960s girl groups produced by Phil Spector), none of the suggestions
thus far captures two essential aspects that the term must have: first,
it has to encompass a range of possible situations from mere potential
to the actual beginning stages of dating; and second, it must make clear
that, unlike terms such as, say, “sweetie” or “honey” or “girlfriend” or
even “bee-yatch,” the romantic interest may not necessarily be mutual.
The members of a man’s queue might be ladies he’s contacted first, and
doesn’t yet know if they’re truly interested; they could be ladies who
have contacted him, and whom he may or may not be interested in pursuing
further; they could be mere flirtations or serious relationship
prospects or merely potential booty calls, or any combination of these.
So whatever term is decided upon here, it’s got a lot of ground to cover
for one poor little word…essentially, it has to cover the entire range
of romantic potential, from all-out fireworks to abject humiliating rejection.
BTW, I liked your little precis of our discussion and general relationship.
(Christ, you know, you’re right. I DO have far too much time on my hands…)
Well, I sent M. the thread last night, as I’ve sent him other threads – he’ll succumb to the greatness of the Dope eventually. I’ve gotten my pal K. reading daily, though he claims he’s too cool to post. Heh. Only a matter of time.
Anyway, here’s M’s take on the thread:
"If women have suitors what do men have?
HEADACHES!"
…that’s a good one. Although it still doesn’t solve the problem,
does it? And while some of the suggestions are aesthetically pleasing,
e.g., inamorata, beau-ettes, woo-ettes (actually, those all sound like
1960s girl groups produced by Phil Spector), none of the suggestions
thus far captures two essential aspects that the term must have: first,
it has to encompass a range of possible situations from mere potential
to the actual beginning stages of dating; and second, it must make clear
that, unlike terms such as, say, “sweetie” or “honey” or “girlfriend” or
even “bee-yatch,” the romantic interest may not necessarily be mutual.
The members of a man’s queue might be ladies he’s contacted first, and
doesn’t yet know if they’re truly interested; they could be ladies who
have contacted him, and whom he may or may not be interested in pursuing
further; they could be mere flirtations or serious relationship
prospects or merely potential booty calls, or any combination of these.
So whatever term is decided upon here, it’s got a lot of ground to cover
for one poor little word…essentially, it has to cover the entire range
of romantic potential, from all-out fireworks to abject humiliating rejection.
BTW, I liked your little precis of our discussion and general relationship.
(Christ, you know, you’re right. I DO have far too much time on my hands…)
LouisB
December 9, 2003, 1:11pm
28
Rejection. Exes. Spousal support. Visitation. Poverty. Squalor. YMMV.
You know, I’m sensing some bitterness from some quarters…
Shade
December 9, 2003, 3:06pm
32
Quaters? Men are half the population…
Angua
December 9, 2003, 4:01pm
33
She did say some quarters. Two quarters are some quarters which is a half.
Oh, and I agree Twickster , some people seem rather bitter…
pervert
December 9, 2003, 4:14pm
34
Bitterness, like paranoia, does not imply that the Bastds / beyatches are not out to get you.
If the term has to include persons not yet contacted, then perhaps “stalkette”?
Sounds like chicken…
does it taste like chicken as well?
It’s finger lickin’ good.
Try the breasts and thighs!