Rather my point, actually.
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True, and I absolutely understand why gun owners object to this. Then again, “you pussies can get my guns from my cold dead fingers, suck my Glock” isn’t any more productive, if what you’re looking for is a productive discussion. (I think you hear these refrains equally often from the opposing sides.) And for that matter, “guns should be banned” is less threatening than “I’ll shoot anybody who tries to take my guns.”
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Generally agreed and I hate the 'cold, dead hands" crowd but the POV of the second group is that the loss of a right is tantamount to the loss of a life. I’m not saying they’re right per se, but that there’s some middle ground no one is bothering to tread.
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How do you know she “blamed the object” instead of just reminded painfully of her friend’s death? Not a good example of gun phobia in my opinion.
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Because she reacted to the stimuli of the sound of a gun, knowing it was a gun. People who lose loved ones in car crashes aren’t brought to sobs by the revving of an engine or the sight of a busy freeway.
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Fear is irrational. You’re not likely to ever fall off a building and it’s incredibly unlikely your elevator is going to plummet down the shaft, but people are afraid of it anyway sometimes. The odds don’t matter.
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Cars can be dangerous, but what really makes people nervous is that you can be in your car and driving safely and still get killed if somebody else fucks up. You don’t really know who else is on the road with you. It’s more or less the same with guns, except it’s hard for most people to live without cars and guns are more of a choice.
The only issue to me is that that fear has crept into the laws.
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I disagree. Fear is completely rational and in fact a necessary human protection mechanism. This is phobia-grade fear that is, or at least seems irrational.
To a thinking person, the odds absolutely matter. I ride an elevator to and from the 18th floor at least 4 times a day. I know the odds are very much against me plummeting to my death and in fact I know that there are no less than three systems that must fail in order for me to fall to my doom in that box. That makes me cautious, but not fearful. In my job, I’ve fallen through the floor of a burning house into a basement. I continue to go into burning houses becuse I know that’s not a common condition. Life is not a risk-free endeavour, a peanut can kill you if you’re allergic to it. At some point we’ve got to stop trying to insulate ourselves from every conceivable risk, take the bull by the horns and punish with vengance those who would use a gun to commit a crime. We don’t do that though. No career criminal is truly fearful of jail because he knows the system and how it works and how to beat it. THAT, IMO is what we need to fight.