I keep thinking about this case I heard about. Wish I could cite it, but durned if I remember the names of the people involved.
Two kids, right? Teeners. Been dating for years. They’re about two and half years apart in age.
He gets her knocked up.
They decide to clue their parents in. The families meet. They argue. They discuss. They finally make peace, and decide to back the kids. The kids decide to have the baby, and get married as soon as legally possible. He’s going to finish school, and get a job, and she’s going to go to college, get her degree, and then put HIM through college. The folks are supportive, and agree to help out with the baby. It’s not going to be easy… but everyone’s determined to make it work.
Oopsie. Due to the placement of his birthday in the year… someone calculates that in order for the dates to match up… when she got preggers… HE was EIGHTEEN, and SHE was FIFTEEN.
…and everyone is very much surprised when the boy is abruptly arrested. Huh? What crime was committed? Who reported this? What the hell is going on?
Oh, dear. Since he was eighteen, he was a legal adult. She was fifteen, and therefore a minor child. The police have arrested our teen hero… and charged him with child molestation.
The parents objected. The daughter objected. What the hell? Why was the city getting involved? We all had this settled just fine, ourselves, thank you. Who reported this? Who has interfered in our family business?
The district attorney told them to go take a flying leap. A crime had been committed, he had been made aware of it, and the criminal suspect would be prosecuted to the limits of his ability to do so. The kid wound up copping a plea, paying a fine, doing a little time served. He is now a Registered Sex Offender and a convicted felon, two tags which will play a major part in his future, I think… and will certainly affect his ability to go to college and support his wife and child.
The entire family, and many other people who heard of the story when it broke, felt that this was quite unnecessary on the part of the law.
The DA has repeatedly made his point clear: The Law Is The Law, And When The Law Is Broken, We Know What To Do.
No matter what.
Since then, I have quit worrying about justice. Ain’t any. There is only law, and the dictates of my conscience.
My conscience is easy to satisfy. All I have to do is do the right thing, and avoid doing the wrong things.
Now, that just leaves the law…