Anger? Who said anything about anger?
“Sadness” is more like it. These guys did horrible things… and now they are dead. No redemption. No rehabilitation. No chance to make things better now. I sure wouldn’t want to meet MY maker with the load that Pol Pot had on HIS conscience. Assuming a gentle and merciful god, he’s probably STILL trying to explain himself.
My point is this: Rather than gloss over the evils a man has done during his funeral… why not simply state them?
"Today, we gather to see off a bad man. He was a bad man because he did bad things. These are the bad things he did. Yadda yadda yadda. These are the sins HE committed that YOU will have to and are still paying for. THESE are the crimes that he takes with him as he leaves this mortal existence to cross over into the Great Unknown.
There will be no redemption for him. No repentance. It’s too late. Let us meditate on what he has done… and what WE have done… and how we may best set these things right and make amends to those we have harmed. While we still breathe, and still have time to make it right."