Yeah, I can be nosy. But something like judging someone based on his or her checkbook balance isn’t something I’d consider. Just because lots of people have multiple checking accounts and shared ones. Not that I’m judging you or anything!
Well, on mine you’d see I don’t really balance my checkbook, although I know what’s in there and never bounce a check.
But yeah, I’m kinda nosy. I wouldn’t look at anybody’s bank balance, because I’m not really interested in it, but when I’m in the bathroom at somebody else’s house you bet I look in their medicine cabinets and drawers and things.
No, actually I’m quite the opposite. I tend to stay so focused on what’s going on in my life that I ignore what’s going on with other folks. I’m sure that drives a lot of people crazy - you might walk in the room with a monkey on your head and I won’t even ask about it. Heh. I’m so un-nosy that, when I would neaten up my daughter’s room, if she left her diary out on the bed I never read it, I just closed it and put it in the drawer.
I don’t like to call it “nosy” - but I am so ridiculously curious it is not even funny.
I have to know everything. Not surprisingly, it gets me into trouble sometimes. Not so much on a personal end - but I really need to be kept in the loop on work stuff.
I can read a letter upside down on someone’s desk in about 15 seconds.
I was filled with guilty pleasure when I found someone’s wallet. Not because I could take their cash, but because I had a bona fide, good-deed reason to go through every scrap of paper and card in there in an attempt to find a phone number (by the way, is your phone number in your wallet so someone can get it back to you?). I finally called her dentist’s office (appointment card) and asked them to have her call me.
I love to find people’s dropped grocery lists and make conjectures based on their contents.
I would never: read someones’ unopened mail (if it’s lying out where I can see it you takes your chances), read a diary or a journal, go through someone’s drawers. But I want to.
A friend of mine once had what sounded like a dream job to me. She worked for the navy and her job was to go through the stuff of navy folks who died before they sent it all back to family.
You’d make an erroneous judgement about me because only a small portion of my money is in my checking account–most is in my savings account and my cash management account (which I can write checks on but only do for larger items like my mortgage and never for retail purchases).
There are some things I’m very nosey about like who my friends are dating and how it’s going. But I really prefer not to know how about the money matters of my friends and family. I don’t think any of my friends or family know how much I earn, what my net worth is, or what last year’s tax returns looked like (unless they snooped). Likewise, I don’t want to know their information. We have general ideas about each other based on lifestyle and purchases, but nothing specific.
I used to be more curious and open about money matters. Then I had a few close relationships turn sour over differences in finances. So I keep that pretty close to the vest these days.
If I am out and 2 people are talking near me I usually get all up in there conversation and I will be listening so much to what they are talking about if its interesting…I will temporarily ignore my own conversation. Then I snap out of it and listen to who ever is talking to me. Although once these 2 women were talking and one said something like “I told that guy off” and I came up and said “Yeh you tell him” and they just laughed.