Suezeekay, you are clueless. Are you, what, 17? Do you pay taxes? At what point did you drive your mind off into the weeds?
The Vietnam Vets (and in general, anyone who does military service and puts their life in jeopardy in time of war) are indeed heroes, because they serve their country when they are asked to, and they put their lives on the line for all of the other people back in the U.S. who got to proceed with their lives, unimpeded by the nastiness of wars (be they political or otherwise).
A brief story. I know a guy who carried a rifle in Vietnam when he was 19 - he got the enviable task of walking through the jungle, looking for people who wanted to kill him. He did his duty because that what’s soldiers must do. He was lucky and wasn’t killed, but some of his friends were.
When he came back, he was kinda, sorta odd, but was never mean-spirited or angry. He was just happy to be home.
Sometimes, others around here will badmouth him for this or that thing he’s done over the last 30+ years (nothing serious - just the way he structured his life). Yet, his kids grew up reasonably well, and he had a positive impact on many hundreds of other kids (and adults) through the work he did.
Whenever anyone starts talking him down, I remind them that, in my mind, he gets the benefit of the doubt because of his war service. He gets my deep thanks for carrying a rifle and getting shot at (when I was at home, safe and secure), and by doing what the military asked him to do under circumstances that were difficult. He fulfilled his duty, which is a concept that most people just don’t get anymore, probably because they’ve been lulled into a sense of complacency and false intellectualism from sitting at their keyboards and watching TV too much.
I just now went back and re-read your OP. My God - you are really a piece of work.