I wouldn’t be too hard on them. I was one of those kids who always related better to adults then my peers and so felt a kinship with many of my teachers. But both during school and after I graduated I know that I would occasionally be a little too informal with one of them and have to back off a bit. I’m sure teachers appreciate being appreciated, but it’s still a profession, and furthermore a profession dealing with children. Some teachers want to keep things professional between them and their students, and many that would love to be more casual may be frightened away from it by administrative policies that are overbearing in the name of propriety. Granted, no response at all when you’ve already graduated is probably being too careful, but I doubt their intention was such that you should take it personally. And hey, even if they have all since turned into murdering rapists, that doesn’t change the impact they made on you back then.
My favs:
3rd grade teacher: she was female and overweight and sweet without being a push over. Can’t remember much else but she was my favorite teacher until junior high. Just a lovely lady.
JHS: Mr Klump! Physical sciences teacher. Drove a beat up VW Beetle. Was very very tall. Very funny like a tv character and did some of the most fun science demonstrations ever. I drew a picture of him on my science test and he drew something for me in return. He used to do this “pretending to walk down stairs” while behind the lab bench routine that was hilarious. All around nice guy. And I forgive him for laughing at me when I yelped at getting liquid nitrogen on my arm :rolleyes:
HS: Mrs NauRitter! Bio teacher. Had lots of long talks with her after class. She got me to do lots of special science projects. I made her a huge color pencil drawing. Wonder if she still has it.
HS: Mr Polchinski! He was actually a substitute teacher but he was really friendly and cool (another tall one too). He was in a band (Blotto) that had a video hit on MTV “I Wanna Be A Lifeguard”. We’d also see him in commercials on tv selling fences or pretending to be a drug addict in a recovery program. But in addition to the substituting he became for awhile the advisor to the HS newspaper which was my primary after school activity. I also managed to find a copy of his yearbook and discovered he was a male cheerleader, back when such things existed in our school! Interestingly when I was 17 and my Mom had my brother, he had a son too, so my brother went to school with his son.
College: Actually technically before college - in my pre senior year in HS took a summer course on Moral Reasoning at the local university. Was a neat course and had a nice and competent teacher. It was nice to be in an academic setting without all the teenage BS and authority crap. Also took a night course at the local college my HS senior year on “math art” taught by a math professor (a friend of my step father) and an art teacher. That was also an awesome class. Had to miss the end though because I was in the hospital with pneumonia.
College: I always forget her name, but the History professor who tended to teach women’s studies type classes. She would spend at least 25% of each class telling anecdotes about her fairly messy but interesting personal life. We also got to have dinner at her house as part of one of our specialize seminars.
College: Another name I forget, David S-something. Theater professor, but specialized in interactive media. I took a lot of courses with him and they were all amazing. Culminated in a theater production of 9 Beckett short plays that were conducted simultaneously in various parts of of a large theater space, all enhanced with various technologies. I got to program a motion activated dance space which had different areas for each character that played lines from Waiting For Godot when moved in. His wife was cool too!
There were others but those stick out in my mind…