I’ve got a situation, which could be called a problem. I’m in love with my best friend. She lives in another state with another guy, and her boyfriend is a guy I like a respect a lot. But I had these feelings before they met, and I’m feeling a lot of jealousy and feeling like I’m wrong for feeling that way. But it gets worse; I’m in a band with both her brother and brother-in-law (the latter being her sister’s husband). I’m lovesick–absolutely crazy over this girl that I probably can never be with. That seems really unfair and I’m very upset about that. Since my circle of friends is (unhealthily?) tight and probably a bit too close, I appeal to you, my fellow SDMB users, for any nuggets of wisdom you may be able to impart upon a dumb earnest guy motivated by questionably intelligent emotions.
Regardless, thank you for allowing me to vent on a topic unquestionably mundane and most certainly pointless. Any thoughts anybody might have are welcome and appreciated.