Lust4Life lives in perfidious Albion, where the law may be different.
And rightfully so, IMO. The problem is that, in practice, women are asked this question and judged for hireability based on their answer, while men are not, which is blatant sexism. How do you know that the guy you’re interviewing isn’t a single dad? Or that the woman you’re interviewing isn’t married to a stay-at-home dad? Or if she’s a lesbian with a stay-at-home partner? Instead of asking after highly personal and possibly irrelevant details, an interviewer can easily get the answer they actually need by asking, “Do you have any obligations, professional or otherwise, that could prevent you from fulfilling your duties here?”
Anyway, I’m wondering who put a gun to the theater manager’s head and forced him to hire mostly women.
Around here, at least, a pretty decent percentage of candidates running for local public office list those things on the statements that come in that pamphlet from the Registrar of Voters. It usually makes me vote against them, because it just seems so bizarre that someone would list their family life as a qualification, and it makes me wonder about their hiring practices and the boundary between their personal and professional lives. I make an exception for high-profile races like the gubernatorial and presidential races, since the media would ferret that stuff out right quick anyway.
Again, you can get around this just by asking, “Do you have any obligations, professional or otherwise, that would prevent you from devoting <x amount of time> to this job?” Not only does that let you weed out the people who honestly won’t be able to devote that much time, it communicates your expectations clearly and it probably covers your ass too.
As for me, I’ve been asked to expound upon my military discharge at great length, and discriminated against, which is illegal–all I have to tell an interviewer is whether or not it was Dishonorable (it wasn’t). (I don’t remember if that’s federal or state law.) I also thought it was inappropriate that, when I applied at a computer store and marked off Sunday mornings as a time I would be unavailable, the interviewer asked me if I went to church. I figure, either you’re OK with me being unavailable on Sunday morning or you aren’t; if your only acceptable reason for being unavailable is church attendance, I probably won’t be a good fit at your company.
(Granted, it was also inappropriate for me to try to get Sunday mornings off just so I could watch football! :eek: I like to think I’ve grown up a bit since then.)