Starting from the maxim that no advanced technology is possible without a basis built on simple technologies, fire weaves through almost every technology. But to start off, us humans (not stipulated in the OP) need fire to simply not die from exposure outside the tropics.
Fire sterilizes compromised water for consumption and makes scores of food sources safe / edible / more easily digested / more nutrious.
Fire is a universal basic tool for enhancing hunting and gathering activities (e.g. driving game, , nighttime hunting and fishing, encouraging new plant growth, so attracting game etc.), increasing the productivity of the land, e.g. slash- and-burn cultivation, and for extracting food off cereal grains.
Copious amounts of energy-dense foodstuffs is a prerequisite for advanced (human) technology. There is no writing, specialization etc. without a secure food surplus.
Fire is the only source of “articial” light outside advanced technology. Only in the high latitudes in the short summertime an artificial light source would not be needed for safety, productivity, social needs, etc., again, for us humans.
Fire is a basic tool for working down wood, when large amounts of wood needs to be removed and only stone and bone tools are available, ie. when making containers, watercraft etc.
Fire makes it possible to heat-bend wood, horn, antler etc. into new shapes for tools, weapons and vehicles.
Skins for clothing, bedding, containers etc. can be tanned without fire, but finishing the skins by smoking them makes them much more usable / durable during wet weather / other contact with water.
Stone can be knapped into tools without fire, but many tool stone types either require or greatly benefit from heat-treating, done with fire.
Gold is useless as a tool material, native copper little better. Any and every community-changing use of metals involves fire heavily, from smelting to casting and forging, to hardening and tempering (arguably, the Polar Inuit changed their communities some, with meteoric, cold-hammered iron).
Ceramics, brickwork and glass, are only possible with fire.
Primitive engines without fire - hmmm.
But, the OP is impossibly broad, with super-smart underwater beings on other planets on the table, so every treshold requiring the use of fire for us humans on this planet can be explained away by special conditions.