If the goal was to just call you a racist, you would’ve been pitted by now.
You’ve been given feedback on how you are being perceived. You have two options: 1) ignore the feedback because it hurts your feelingsor 2) consider the feedback and grow from it. I’m optimistic you can do the latter.
Since you object to people interpreting your OP as a racist dig, let me ask: what did you seek to communicate by holding up White Thorpe as an example of the issue you’re talking about?
She got into 8 Ivy Leagues, okay. She’s also of Nigerian descent. Okay. And? All I take from these two facts is that she is probably an exceptionally good student. I mean, that’s what I conclude about the other two students mentioned in this thread; am I to treat her differently? Without any facts about her grades, her SAT scores, or her extra currics, there would be no reason for me to do that. You can’t even tell us whether her parents were former Ivy Leaguers or political big wigs or faculty/adminstrators at any of those schools.
If this student were to google her name and find this thread, how do you think she might see your OP? Do you think it would be unreasonable for her to take offense at what you’ve implied about her? Perhaps ask yourself how many times in her life she’s already had to deal with comments about her “getting ahead” because of her race, despite being objectively better than the competition.
It isn’t difficult for me to put myself in her shoes, because I’ve already been in her shoes. I’ve been the black girl who had to be 3 times as good as the white boys just to be seen as equal to them. I’ve been the black girl who graduated with honors from one of the toughest engineering schools in the U.S., and yet was assumed to be less deserving of a spot than the white boys who ended up flunking out or barely skating by. I’ve been her, so I know how I’d interpret being singled out as one of those undeserving Affirmative Action recipients.
Again, I implore you to take a look at the folks in charge right now. Do you really believe that it’s the White Thorpes of the world that we should be concerned about? Let’s assume she isn’t truly an exceptional student and her race did give her a leg up over someone else. Is this really a more pressing problem than the wealthy (regardless of race) essentially buying their way into these hallowed institutions? If the kids of rich donors–most of whom are gonna be white–have an increased chance of getting in, I just can’t see mustering up outrage about certain racial or ethnic minorities having an increased chance. But you seem to feel differently. Why?