Starving, wow. Just… so much anger, and fear. Take a deep breath, man. Consider for just one moment that you don’t know as much about liberals as we know about ourselves. I certainly don’t fit in your narrow box and take considerable umbridge at being painted with such a broad brush. You have no idea how vastly different one liberal can be from the next, no clue where I came from and what ‘‘common sense’’ experiences have shaped my political disposition.
Personally, I’m interested in what evidence you have for your claims. In other threads I’ve cited the fact that the U.S. has one of the highest poverty rates in the developed world, and that’s a very generous definition of ‘‘poverty’’ that was last defined in 1964. Curtis LeMay appears to not be concerned about our poverty rates because they include black people and Mexicans, but I’m willing to assume you find it problematic that half of the people living in poverty in the U.S. are children. I think there is plenty of solid evidence that racism is still a serious problem in the United States, and I would argue that it’s particularly insidious now because we can mask it with claims of ‘‘poverty culture’’ and so forth, or ‘‘gangsta culture’’ as you put it. Since we know that poverty is correlated with high crime rates, I’m not sure where you’re going with this.
If you really believe that conservative policies are the key to life being better for everyone, as you so consistently argue, I need a convincing explanation for why significant conservative social policy initiatives such as the transformation of AFDC to TANF in 1996 had no appreciable impact on the poverty rates, and why over the last 30 years wages have stagnated while productivity has increased. Unlike apparently all of the liberals that you know, I’m actually a critical thinker and really want answers to these questions. Is there a conservative answer to these questions?
On a more personal note, your notion that most people are poor because they don’t work hard enough/want it bad enough is nonsense. I’ve been poor. I’ve lived with poor people. I’ve seen them break their backs to put food on the table and get nowhere. And I’ve seen all the opportunities I’ve had as a result of certain accidents of fortune (such as my skin color, the fact that I used to be a devout Christian, and my academic talent.) A few of us are lucky that way, but the experience of having been poor will always stay with me and I’ll be damned if I minimize all the shit I went through to get where I am today.
I think too many conservatives think purely in terms of financial well-being when it comes to equality. But what you negate is the emotional reality that some of us have to face. I recently had the privilege of having a classroom conversation with the first black woman in history to earn a Ph.D. in both Philosophy and Law. She explained how many point to her as proof that anybody can be anything in America, and how when she was first invited to be visiting professor at Harvard she wanted so badly to believe it herself. But she couldn’t, because they gave her absolute hell. This was in the 1990s by the way. She was hounded by the media, marginalized by the faculty, and there were op-ed pieces in the Washington Post about how women were not qualified to be professors of law. The whole thing was a giant clusterfuck (one professor sacrificed his tenure out of protest) and this woman, now a tenured professor at Penn, nearing 60 years of age, beautiful, brilliant, strong and confident, this woman was struggling not to cry as she described her life dealing with racism. I suppose you could call her a classic victim, but if she was that, she would be poor wouldn’t she? Do you think she’d be a fucking tenured professor at Penn if she had a habit of not taking responsibility for her life?
So what you don’t see when you look at all of us lucky folks who made it are the scars of inequality. I drive a fuel-efficient foreign car, enjoy the occasional arugula and love me some homosexuals, let me tell you. But I’m never going to be that stereotype you see. Ever. And the more you generalize about people like me, the more you lose out on the beauty and nuance inherent in life, and the poorer of an intellectual you become.
(Since you rely so heavily on ‘‘common sense’’ over actual data, I thought maybe you’d appreciate a little anecdotal information.)
ETA: Sorry to hear about your friend. Feel better soon.