(I hope I read everyone’s responses okay with what I am going to state…)
First off, the clinically depressed do not necessarily need “anti-psychotic” medications. Most depression medications react on certain brain chemicals, of which flee my mind at the moment.
Being depressed is a simple matter of the blues, depression (clinical depression) is a full blown means by which a person’s brain chemicals have changed. This can happen to anyone at anytime. In many cases a person can use talk therapy to work through the pain in other cases the aid of medication (not anti-psychotic) will help in easing the brain to get back to it’s regular condition.
The distinction, from my own experience with my family and me being clinically depressed in the past is; my brother and I had the same exact experience of our mother’s death, I sunk into a depression that lasted many years that at some point required medication to pull me through as my brain chemistry had changed. Why it changed and his didn’t, I don’t know. I am ADD so I may be more prone to depression that he could ever be. We aren’t biologically connected, my brother and me, but somehow he was better able to handle that than me.
Now, consider that we both live very different lives. He is very successful in business and has a family of his own. He has found a level of happiness that come with difficulty in his life. You take my life and it’s very different, single, never married, no kids and has a hard time with social situations, even with family. It’s not so much, in my eyes, an environment thing as it is genetic. I understand my birth mother has many of the same problems I have and has also been treated for depression.
In either case, I honestly believe that being depressed and having clinical depression are very different ends of the scope. The blues versus unable to sleep or sleep too much, eat too much or not at all, alcoholism, drug use, thoughts of death, etc…the depressed person is dealing with a rough spot in life as we all do but the clinically depressed person feels very little joy in life. The depressed person has feelings of guilt, even for things they couldn’t control in life. The depressed person has sustained interupptions of anything that might bring joy to one that is a relatively normal person that can’t be shaken.
So I hope that helps answer your question. Yes, everyone has the blues but a genuine depression is feelings of dread and sadness for weeks and months on end.
< thankfully I am over my last depression…spent a lot of time making enemies and pissing people off around me but I got through it without drugs as my last experience with them really messed me up more. >