Airline & former USAF safety guy …
Several thoughts …
When dealing with anything involving aviation, you need to be very careful to separate out general aviation (or military aviation) from commercial air carrier aviation. The difference in any safety fact you care to name is between 10 and 40 to one. And unless you’re in the habit of riding in Cessna’s, the general aviation statistics aren’t relevant to you. (GenAv encompasses a lot more than just light-plane pilots flitting about on weekends. But all the other categories of GenAv are even less accessible to the typical Doper and hence can be ignored for the OP’s purposes.)
Taking Hbns’s data at face value, he says
That’s 6.5 fatalities per million *aircraft *flight hours. If we assume 100 passengers per aircraft (which is low but the math is easy) we get .065 fatalities per million passenger flight hours.
Which changes commercial aviation from being about 10x as dangerous as driving per hour to 1/10th as dangerous per hour.
Naturally, cars aren’t always driven solo, so we’d need to apply the same correction to them to be fair & accurate. But the average occupancy of cars is (IMO) somewhere less than 2, and the actual average passenger load is somewhere North of 100, so the end result of more precise calcs will still be about as I outlined above.
As Crazyhorse’s post & cite say, distance is probably a better metric for driving. If you drive to work on a Monday in stop & go traffic & later make the same trip on Saturday afternoon, are you really exposed 2x or 3x the risk of death in heavy traffic at 20mph as you are on Saturday at highway speeds? Almost certainly not.
Boeing’s data is a bit muddled in that most of climb & descent are all-but as safe as cruise. But yes, the main risk the first & last few minutes of flight. A joking aphorism in the aviation biz has it that “You should avoid the edges of the air.” Stay in the middle and you’ll be fine. But bad things happen when you get near the edges.
The recently much-discussed Air France 447 accident was an example of getting too close to the top edge of the air (plus bunch of other problems), which resulted in them getting to the bottom edge of the air in a bad state. And as soon as they got to the bottom edge, everybody was killed. Stay in the middle, People!!!
Commercial piloting in air carrier aviation is not really much more dangerous than any other white-shirt-and-tie office job. It’s just that so few office workers are killed on the job that the few pilots who do get killed stand out statistically. There’s certainly more risk exposure, but not much actual difference in bad outcomes.
Once you add in the bush pilots and crop dusters & emergency medical helicopter guys and heli-loggers and such, now you’re talking about a job with real risk. Again the numbers are 20 to1 or worse than commercial air carrier statistics.
As I recall the fatality statistics for office & retail workers, they exclude deaths due to crime, i.e. retail store hold-ups and disgruntled office workers shooting up the place. I wonder how the numbers would work out if we added those in? Is USPS desk clerk in fact a highly dangerous occupation since they’re exposed to both those crimes?