[QUOTE=pseudotriton ruber ruber]
Your entire belief system is predicated on the Ten Commandments, one of which instructs you to be dismissive and hostile to idols, whom many other people on this planet choose to worship. Yet when I’m somewhat less peremptory and hostile to your beliefs, you call me arrogant and rude. You don’t seem to understand that your entire belief system is built on intolerance and superiority to others’ beliefs, of which you are certain beyond doubt without the slightest proof, and it’s astonishing to me that you could ever summon up the ability to call anyone else “arrogant” for disagreeing with you. Yet, to my open-jawed amazement, that is indeed what you say about someone who asks you, however politely, to show that there is a Xian God before moving on to further discussions of that Xian God. Your refusal to clarify the most essential point about your God’s existence before making the most absurd assertions contrary to fact is nigh upon incredible.
Do you get it now? Let me if I can help you any more.
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It’s already been pointed out to you that I am not a Christian but for the sake of this discussion lets say I am. No, the ten commandments doesn’t say be hostile toward those who believe in other Gods. And No , I clearly did not call you or anyone arrogant and rude for disagreeing. I very explicitly said that is not the case. If you’re going to participate in this discussion try to pay attention and please don’t misrepresent my words.
So, pretending I am Christian, yes I do believe my God is the one true God and my beliefs are the only way to salvation for mankind. That doesn’t automatically include intolerance and hostillity toward others. Quite the contrary. I am commanded to love my fellow man and try to be an example of God’s love, so that others might choose to recieve his loving spirit into their hearts.
{of course we both know not all Christains believe the same or react in the same way, so let’s not go around in circles over this}
Let’s also imagine that I bring up my beliefs in conversation in an attempt to convert you, as Jesus has commanded me to do.
You in turn say, “before we continue our discussion I request that you provide some evidence that the God you’re speaking of actually exists”
Do I think you’ve been rude? No. I’ve already made that clear.
I mention the beauty of creation which you reject as evidence and maybe a couple of other things which you also reject.
Finally it would come down to me talking about faith, and surrendering your heart to Jesus and inviting his spirit in. You might say “no thanks, I just don’t believe any of that stuff. I don’t believe God exists any more than I believe Santa or the Easter Bunny exists”
Thats a statement of your honest belief and still not being rude. Neither party has been rude to the other. If you added “and I think you’re an idiot for believing that crap” then you’ve crossed the line into rudeness. It may also be what you honestly think but it’s also a personal attack on the other person rather than a discussion of belief and thats why it crosses the line. Kind of like our GD guidelines.
Now if a Christian added angrily “Well you’ll burn in hell for that you heathen” I’d say they crossed the line as well.
That’s what I’m trying to discuss here. The methods of dialogue that might lead to further understanding and a little personal examination.
If you prefer to refuse to continue any discussion of beliefs until someone can prove the Christian God exists , that’s your prerogative and perfectly fine.You are free to start every belief discussion with your reqiest for evidence. You are free to not participate until such proof becomes available. It’s not being rude or arrogant to do so.