I vote for good. My roommate is a wonderful guy, sweet, innocent, always smiling. But he is soooooo sensitive I sometimes have trouble believing he’s real. I feel like I have to walk on glass when I talk to him because if I say something too abrupt I’m afraid I might scare him. (And I’ve known him for over a year.
Anyway, I walked in the other day to him watching “Clockwork Orange” for the first time, I got excited, sat down and glued my eyes to the screen (I can see that movie a hundred times and still love it). About 10 minutes later or so I look over and notice him flipping through pictures of flowers, 100’s of pictures he had taken (he’s a gardner and is more passionate about colorful flowers than any 3 people I’ve ever met), and he starts leaning over to me “Isn’t that nice?”(with a glowing smile on his face) “how 'bout this one?”. I give him an agreeable smile complete with nod, all the while thinking “this is one of the greatest cult movies ever made and he’s looking at pictures of flowers :rolleyes:”.
Afterwards I asked him what he thought and he said something like,“It was okay. I generally like more positive movies”.
On the outside I remained agreeable - “Really? OK fair enough. I gotcha.” Inside my frustration was causing my eyes to fill with blood (you may find this an extreme reaction to something more or less trivial, but this is one of many, many examples of his not appreciating great art because it’s not positive).
I remember another time I got him to watch Mindwalk which is an extremely positive, optimistic, and inspirational movie about a conversation/debate between an artist, politician, and a scientist. While he liked it in the end, during it he commented about how he thought all the arguing seemed negative.
One more example. We were watching my Pink Floyd video “Live in Pompei” and he was enjoying it but when “Careful with that Axe Eugene” came on he had to leave the room because he couldn’t stand the screaming.
These do not even tip the iceberg as examples of the darker art I appreciate, but he got me thinking “could he be onto something?” Would we all be happier if we just ignored anything and everything negative and focused only on positive things? not just in art but in everyday conversation?
Well, no, of course not. I had initially intended to put this in GD, but I found the answer to be so obvious and easily supportable using logic that I moved over to here. Then in the middle of writing it I almost put it in the pit, but I don’t want to let myself start flaming people for their tastes in art (well at least night to the extreme level that placement in the pit would prompt).
So for anyone who cares, topic is open for discussion.