Is it possible for a white person to use the n-word and not be a racist?

Of course.

Basketball is much easier to play in urban areas.

That’s why basketball is huge in London and Montreal but nobody plays basketball in Indiana.:slight_smile:

In all seriousness, while his post was inartfully worded, I think his intent was to point out that African-American dominance in basketball in comparison to the lack of Cuban and Brazilian basketball players is due to cultural reasons not biological differences just as no one think Russian dominance of chess or Canadian dominance of hockey is due to biological differences.

I would recommend against doing so.

The blacks who wouldn’t respond by physically attacking you for doing so were probably not going to do so and you just misread them.

Beyond that anyone standing nearby inclined to help you if got attacked might be disinclined to help. I would.

 I have been around enough to know when an attack is eminent. If I can take the dge off of his confidence before we actually go to blows it increases my chances of winning.

You are assuming that black people are likely to physically attack other people if they hear a particular word. Why?

That’s not what I said, nor what I intended to imply.

Honeybadger said that he/she would refer to a black person as a “nigger” if they were “confronted by a black man in a particularly threatening manner”.

My point was that a black person who “confronts” someone “in a particularly threatening manner” in response to being called a “nigger” is far more likely to respond to being called that with violence than the overwhelming majority of African-Americans.

If you think I’m wrong just go up to members of the Bloods, the Crips, or the Vice Lords and say “hey Nigger” and see what happens.

Obviously, most African-Americans aren’t criminals and while they’d be offended by being called this probably wouldn’t react violently though most would be extremely offended unless they though you were either A)insane or B)joking.

hey, has anyone else noticed that most racists don’t even realize that they are racists?

because i notice that a lot.

also, wow.

Yup, racists never think they’re racists.

They think they’re telling the truth.

They’re all the fucking same whether they’re whites who insist blacks are stupid, Japanese who think Chinese are scum, Serbs who think Bosnians are psychotics who need to be put down, Turks who think Kurds are scum, Jews who think Muslims are barbarians, or Muslims who think Jews are behind every war the world has fought.

To any who start squealing that I’ve used “racist” inappropriately, get a life.

Glad you pointed out the error of my ways. If it ever happens to me again I will offer to suck his dick in exchange for not beating me up. I am sure that would not be a racist gesture.

The Dark Secret of Gazebo Grove: a Choose Your Destiny Novel

by colander

You stand at the entrance to your brand new gazebo. Shiny wood stain and ornate latticework make it a treat to look at, and it will only get more impressive as the ivy threads its way up the slats. It’s a beautiful day out and the chirpy birds make your heart soar. You take a deep breath and inhale the beautiful scent of the blooming gardenias. It just doesn’t get any better than this.

Suddenly, the birdsong ceases and a chill wind ripples through the tall grass. A long, ominous shadow crosses your gardenias, causing them to wither and droop. Your gorge rises as you realize that your worst fear has finally come to pass. Yes, a blackman has invaded your sacred grove, and boy, does he look angry… and aroused! What will you do?

If you choose to placate the blackman by sucking his dick and hoping for the best, turn to page 74!

If you think the most prudent course of action would be to yell racial slurs at him, page 125 is the page for you!

:confused: Dude, what the hell part of Torrance do you live in that an attack is ever “imminent?” Arlington and Sartori?

I thought they gentrified that place…

Going back quite a few years, not much of an issue anymore, I grew up in Gardena.

Haven’t read the whole thread and looks like Rachellelogram has stopped posting, but I just wanted to put up my opinion that it is unabashadly racist to throw the word nigger around as an insult. If the guy was saying “hey what’s up nigga?” then I’d say no, not racist (even if one white person to another). If he was saying, “You fucking stupid nigger!” then yes that’s unabashadly racist.

I’m a lifelong gamer and consider video gaming to be a great hobby, but this is the exact reason I very, very rarely ever play online games except with personal friends. I absolutely cannot stand hearing faggot thrown around as an insult and when I call people on it I get, “oh I don’t mean anything against gay people! It’s just a word!” No, you’re just a thoughtless, careless biggot. It’s no different than using nigger as an insult. It inherently carries with it a sense of “black people are bad” and thus using a slur typically used against them against you must mean that you are just bad as them. It’s terrible and I hate it.

A reasonable response probably lies somewhere between a racial slur and sexual supplication. I would recommend against both of your suggest courses of action so far.

Further, if I (and most people, I believe) witness an altercation in which one party is screaming a racial slur, I’m far more likely to take the other party’s side. In addition, yelling a racial slur before committing violence (even defensive violence) will probably not go well for you in any potential subsequent legal action.

Were I a threatening person, and I consciously or inadvertently was intimidating someone, I would be more likely to take a shouted racial slur as “this is a racist douchebag who should be beaten” than “this is a strong person who I should not attack”.

It’s kind of mind-boggling that someone actually believes shouting a racial slur, in a particular situation, is less likely to result in injury.

Good idea to respond to a threat with a counter threat. Remember, a blackman can smell fear. Stand up taller, spread your arms and yell. This will effectively call his bluff (most of the threatening manners of a blackman are simply posturing) and establish you as the alpha dominant in the encounter.

I don’t think that will help. Incidentally, are you a South Park character?

They did. Why do you think attacks there are eminent?

I would do the same thing with any race, the question was about using the “n” word. When we are in a bad situation we get into fight or flight mode. If I happen to go into fight mode The last thing I an worrying about is hurting someones feelings.

:smiley:

Remember to avoid blackman habitats during menstruation, also, as they may be attracted by the smell of blood.

Huh, I’ve slogged through the whole thread and no-one, in either the original outing or the revived zombie, has discussed QT’s use of ‘dead nigger storage’ in Pulp Fiction. I has a sad. :frowning:

I don't know what benefit you are seeing in turning this into a racial issue. Most animals, lizards, fish, primates etc. make themselves look larger and will often make noise to frighten and aggressor. It is a very primal thing and still effective. Obviously not 100% effective but we need to know how to pick our battles. 

Was this thread a contest to see who could come up with the most PC answer?