I am a normally functioning adult human who lived for many years without a bank account.
I’d be happy to field any questions.
It’s not easy–being poor is very much not easy–it’s very much more expensive than having money. I can elaborate on that in a minute.
My situation was unique: I worked freelance so I had no main “paycheck” coming regularly.
I DID often (even mostly) get paid via check, and I had a nice little system–I’d simply go to the issuing bank and cash the check there for free (as is the case with all local financial institutions).
For non-local Banks, I found a kind of bodega type convenience store that offered check cashing right by my apartment. Not only were they providing a niche service, but they intended to cater to a very wide swath of people who need non-institutionalized check cashing at an affordable rate: Immigrants.
That place was kind of a god blessing–they gave you a customer PIN to identify yourself for repeat check cashing, which lowered the cost once you were kind of “vetted” as not being up to bad things. It was very nice.
I only once recall using a check-cashing chain type place…outrageous rates.
To pay bills and other necessary transactions outside of cash, I kept a series of reloadable debit cards, or paid via money orders.
“Being Poor Costs More”–every one of these little transactions cost me more money.
If you don’t have enough money in the bank to cover something coming out, you get hit with a finance charge. So not having enough money costs you more money. Miss your phone payment and it gets cut off–or can’t pay it until you get your next pop of money–pay a re-activation fee.
Fees for everything, fees on top of fees! It’s a boot on your neck.
I’m REALLY glad to be past those days, but I really did make not having a bank account work for a long, long time–probably close to a decade, even.
On another hand, Doctress Colossus banks through USAA, which has no branches in our state, so managing cash has become a problem since we cannot easily make deposits.