I hesitate to post since I’ve put up such a number in this thread of late, but picunurse’s post deserves comment.
The straightforward first. Bariatric surgery is an invasive step that can work, but it is only indicated for extremely morbid obesity or nearly so with medical complications, because it is so invasive. It is also only indicated if other approaches fail. Many plans will only cover it if there is documention of a year of supervised attempts at weight loss.
Even a 5% weight loss coupled with exercise can be very effective at improving various health measures and lowering mortality rate. Doing it slow is fine. Are you swimming again? Rather than Optifasting it, are you making lifestyle changes in what you eat and how, changes that you can stick with?
But here is where you hit a key issue-
We cannot and should not pretend that obesity is a nonproblem, but stigmatizing the obese is counterproductive. It is more of a public health issue than one of individual will and I fear that some of the tactics employed by some in this war can indeed make things worse. You’ve been to subjected to some of what I (and most policy makers) would see as poor tactics. Stigmatization. Stereotyping and assumption making. Limited time diets and psychobabble. We can do better, and it has to start young. Parents battling with their kids over food and obsessing over the scale will make things worse. It teaches kids to not pay attention to whether or not they are full but to react to external forces, either in compliance or in rebellion. Parents only having healthy food choices available, having them include a variety of tasty choices, and encouraging kids to listen to their bodies, eating more if after a break they are still hungry and stopping when full, will help. Parents limiting electronic entertainment and getting out on the bikes with their kids will help. Society needs to recognize that the poor nutrition advertised to, and readily available to children is as harmful to their long-term health as tobacco and hard booze ads would be. School programs need to refocus from those on the teams to getting everyone enjoying doing something that gets them breathing heavy for half an hour a day. City planning should include less parking on sites and foster more reliance on public transporrt that requires a little walking to and from the pick-up and drop-off sites.
The war will not be won by blaming individual soldiers, but by correcting the problems in our system design.
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